I like this girl. We connect on a lot of different things. We also keep finishing each others sentences. I plan on asking her out soon, but im not sure on how to approach it. She said that I was the one she expected to ask her out last year, but I never did. I told her how whenever she would be with her boyfriend(s), I would kind of watch over her like a guardian angel. I really like her but I dont know what to say. Any suggestions?
2006-12-30 18:38:30 · 31 answers · asked by redwolf5330 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, she's already given you the green light. Trust me, if you ask, she'll say yes. So just ask already! Invite her to dinner, invite her out for New Year's.
2006-12-30 18:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I see trouble. But if you really want to try, the thing to do is to ask her out on a date. If that doesn't work, well, move on. Conversation doesn't mean SQUAT! Girls who haven't the slightest bit of interest in you will often spend HOURS on the phone talking to you. That's why talking on the phone is generally a waste of time. And you shouldn't be waiting for this girl if she has a boyfriend either. If she's single, ask her out. If that doesn't work, she probably doesn't like you anymore. Good night!
OH NO! Don't tell her how you feel in any case! Just ask her out and leave it at that. The more you confess your feelings so soon, the worse it will be for you. You have to hold back or you will creep her out and make her lose respect for you.
2006-12-30 18:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know when she told you that you were the one she expected to ask her out then that means she's already making a move on you. You said you really like her but it seems to me that you're not even trying to make a move on her. That's like giving her a mixed signal. Guardian angel? That's like saying - for me at least -, 'Hey, I'll take care of you but let's not be together.' Right now you're giving her the best-friend vibe. At least tell her that you're jealous of her relationships. Be honest with her and be open.
2006-12-30 18:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by meOW! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to overcome your shyness. I know that you really like her but you doesn't seem to know what to do. I also think that the two of you are friends. Why not ask her out for a group date? That will make the two of you feel comfortable and at the same time, you will also have the time to discover each other.
2006-12-30 18:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by lois lane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not a woman, but I think I can help. Well, at this point, there is two posibilites.
1. She likes you, there is a trick that never fails, but you have to seat to use it. When you seat, you put your hand on top of hers, like you were doing nothing, she will not even notice, if she takes her hand away, she does not like you, if she does not take it away, she likes you. You need to ask her out.
2. You missed out, if the trick with the hand does not work, that means that she thinks you are stupid because you missed your chance with her, at this poing there is nothing to do. SOrry.
2006-12-30 18:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants you to ask her out. In that case, don't worry or be scared. Just start out by simply asking her to lunch, dinner or a movie. No big deal there..........and see what happens. If she agrees, then this is your big chance to start a relationship with her. Take it slow, go with the flow and be yourself. The best approach is always the honest, upfront and to the point one.
2006-12-30 18:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by artutina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her telling you she expected you to ask her out would have been the prefect time to ask her. If you 2 are comfortable enough with each other to share that conversation, then how is "would you like to go out with me?" differ from that? Good luck!
2006-12-30 18:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by emtb9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go up to her and ask her if you guys could talk alone for a minute and then pull her away from her friends and ask her out. But don't let some other guy beat you to getting her!!
2006-12-30 19:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing--- can't you just shut up? You have the dumbest conversations going---just ask her out and be nice--be a listener. She may get tired of you real quick if you don't get a better conversation going. Concentrate on what you both enjoy--go out and have fun--stop talking about these idiotic topics. God his is pathetic
2006-12-30 18:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say to her that you're sorry that you didn't ask her out last year but this year I am asking would you go out with me? Then let nature take it's course. Happy New Year!
2006-12-30 18:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋