Im almost 13, doing fantastic in school, but of course I like this guy. I ususally say hi to him while also including his name, but he REALLY dosnt know who I am. Im not a geek or anything, but Im just not popular, neither is he. I also have NO CLASSES with him so its kinda weird to talk to him. He's in band, and Im in orchestra, but Im hoping to be in band in High School, so how do I get him to notice me and to know who I am without looking like a hooker, trust me boys, there is no way I will do that..
2006-12-30 18:38:16 · 23 answers · asked by mecosfriend16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be brave girl... you said neither of you are very popular right? Well, in addition to that "Hi" that you shoot him ever so often, try just walking up and sitting next to him at lunch. Boys can be really dense sometimes. Even though you greet him - and even go as far as to use his name while doing so, he still may not have put one and one together. Make an effort to have actions show that you're interested (since, afterall, actions speak louder than words).
If the lunch thing can't work out (due to maybe you having two separate lunch schedules), try to get ahold of him at another point. Music is something you share, maybe invite him to a music event one weekend - something both of your parents would be okay with, of course (and something free, if that's possible where you live, as to not have him being able to afford it dictate whether or not he can go).
Hopefully you see what I'm getting at. He'll continue to NOT notice you if you continue to be that girl who just says hi to him in the hall. Those things are changes you could make without looking like a hooker :o). By the way, that's a good stance you've taken - it's good to not use the display of flesh to get a dude's attention EVER.
I hope it all works out for you!!!
2006-12-30 18:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Junior High, what an awkward time. The only advice i can give you is to be the best person that you can be, be confident, and make every time you see this guy into a pleasant time. Smile at him, maybe try making something (cookies, cake, cupcakes, muffins, home made is best and most impressing) and maybe have lunch with him. If this is too hard for you, maybe sit near him during lunch and make sure that you have an extra something to offer him. Think of things that you have in common with him and show an interest what he has to say. Be nice, supportive and sweet, guys are suckers for that. If he cannot take a hint like this, you are probably barking up the wrong tree.
Be patient, this may take some time. Don't be discouraged, it gets easier as you get older.
2006-12-30 18:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by great gig in the sky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's piece of real advice. When you say hi, ask him about his day, or how he is doing? I'm glad that you are not willing to dress like a slut. Many girls today have no respect for themselves. Since you have no classes with him. Ask him for his number or ask him to meet you someplace so you can get to know him better. Just saying hi everyday doesn't really cut it. If you find yourself with nothing to talk about, talk about band and orchestra. Just be yourself and show a little more interest. He probably gets told hi by a lot of other people. show him that you want to get to know him better.
2006-12-30 18:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by redwolf5330 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get him to notice you.........treat him like anyone else. But don't try to make anything happen. Leave that up to him. He must be the one to initiate the friendshiip. So, you'll have to be patient. Be reserved, and slightly mysterious. Let him notice you. If you 'jump the gun' it will never amount to anything. If he doesn't seek you out, eventually, he's obviously not interested in you. Act confident, even if you don't feel it. High School is a hard time for girls; it's rough. Mix and mingle, and smile a lot to show you're friendly to everyone. Most boys in high school are not that interested in dating; and they don't have money if they don't have a job.
2006-12-30 19:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him! He might be one of those guys that are interested in girls that are sluty and trashy, or even girls that are out for a good time with all guys! Get it! Anyway, just move on. Don't ever act desperate, just move on. There are too many guys on the entire planet. Trust me on this one! If he doesnt pay attention to you now, he might in a few months, years, or so. He may be the one to chase you down and want to get to know you. Other than that, just forget him. You are way too young to experience rejection. Good Luck.
2006-12-30 18:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by sexykp78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright... well 13 is kinda young... but these days i guess it's ok... and it's kinda hypocrital of me.. but i learned from my mistakes.. but anyways... Just notice when you see him in the halls and when you do walk by him.. even if he's going in a totally different direction... and leave just in the nick of time to get to your class... you need to take action... get to be good friends... ask him if he wants to hang out sometime or something.. he wont think you're a hooker... if you try way hard he will.. just be yourself.. and i'm sure he'll fall for you.. and if he doesn't... he's obviously not worth it ^_^
2006-12-30 18:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
13, God Slow down. When you are 17 they you will know atuomaticially. Focus on your studies which gives you better foundation for rest of your life. These boys will be always there , you your education will not come back. study well , make your career strong then you can find guys as you like.
2006-12-30 18:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by Naren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well getting a guy to notice is not the right way to go. i am a guy around your age and i know some girls that try to get me to notice them and it really bugs most guys because it can make you look desperate.....
But if you want to become better friends with him and go from there this is what you do.. First you got to make nice with him and start to show interest in him.
when you do that try to not talk to him all that much and rush through things when your talking to him, if he likes you he will try to get you to look at him or talk to him or do stupid things around you.
if he does start to talk or eat lunch with him at school or go for a walk just as friends outside of school.
your friend clayton_2_hotty
ClaytonC@shaw.ca for more help....
2006-12-30 18:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me I would write him a letter and say. Hi (his name),
we really dont know each other but I think you are cute and would like to know you better. ( if boys can call you) give him your number if not, walk up to him in person look at him say hi my name is.... I think you are really hot, then walk away.. over the rest of the school day flirt with him. when you see him look at him and when he looks at you turn away. like a game. or if your not shy let him know you are lookin at him. Do cute things to get his attention. but just be yourself.
2006-12-30 18:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Edwards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a match made in heaven, go ask him out and be yourself. Just make yourself look good and try to talk to him at least.
2006-12-30 18:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋