How would you like a girl to approach you because she wants to kiss you? Like, I'm 13 and I don't know how to approach my boyfriend to kiss him. I REALLY want to because we've been going out for a long time and I want my first kiss to be rememberable. I have NO IDEA what to do!!! Please help!!! Put yourself in my boyfriend's shoes!!!!! Thanks!!
~Rachey :)
2006-12-30 18:31:53 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plus kiss him when he least expects it... and try to keep it one of those soft gentle kisses. and by the way "hand on cheek" is a good approach too.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-30 18:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by A. N 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First Rachey (this is assuming your boyfriend will actually kiss you if he's presented the opportunity, if he's not skip to the bottom) you have to establish the fact that you want to kiss him -
This can be accomplished by a number of things Rachey, but the most simple is triangular gazing, look from one eye to another then to his lips - and repeat, if hes not completely oblivious to non-verbal cues he will pick up on this.
But Rachey, check out some kissing scenes from movies with good actors and pay attention to their body language before they kiss ...
Oh and if your boyfriend is a beta male and doesn't have the confidence or whatever to close those few inches get a new one, or tell him whats up - but don't be afraid to take initiative =)
2006-12-31 02:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Plethora 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
geez, when i was 13, i barely knew what girls were. it's likely that a 13yo boy would be freaked out by most attempts at kissing. putting myself in a 13yo boy's shoes, i suppose i would be least freaked out if my girl was playing something athletic with me like throwing a football around and tackling, and my girl came in with a really short kiss on the cheek after we were on the ground, and then went back for a pass like nothing happened.
yeah, that's the ticket. i should get paid for this :).
2006-12-31 02:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
do you really want your first kiss to be memorable? or do you just want to start kissing boys?
If you want it to be memorable then wait for it. 13 yr old boys are not capable of giving their love truely enough to make a memorable kiss. they are raging hormones and don't have control of them yet. if you wait until you are 16 and have gotten to know a boy and his family real well and the both of you can see a future together then you can have a memorable first kiss.
if on the other hand you just want to start kissing boys, go up to him and say i'm about to kiss you "on your mouth" any objections? and if he doesn't object go for it.
good luck
2006-12-31 02:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
BE YOURSELF! dont force it if your nto ready. If you want to kiss him when you are with him, then do it. The best are unexpected. Sit next to him, have a conversation. and when he says something cute... kiss him. IThat'll be a great first kiss.
2006-12-31 02:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by abrod262000 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Common you are too young right, i would suggest dont get into these things you have all life for this stuff. btw how is he your boyfriend if u havent kiss him?
2006-12-31 02:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by Guy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
New Years is tomorrow night, it would be really romantic if you kissed him at midnight. Just close your eyes and slowly lean in...
2006-12-31 02:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont worry too much about this one you have many years to practice
2006-12-31 02:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're too young. Forget it. Good night!
2006-12-31 02:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wait for him to put his arm round you and just turn into him and kiss.
2006-12-31 02:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋