OK! well thanks for opening this first of all second of all mostly girls are going to be able to help no offence..but,I have this bf and You know I havent talked to him since like 2 days before christmas eve...I dont know what is going on and I dont know what really to do about it..but here is the thing there is this other guy that seems to really like me..he always talks to me and makes me laugh..he is there when my bf isnt.....he told me the other day he loved me and I dont know what to say..I mean I love him but as a friend I dont know if I could ever love him more especailly while dating my recent bf....just when I am around him its like nothing else matters and I really dont know what love feels like it anymore cause I have been hurt so many times.I just am confused and I know I will be getting so mean replys but I really need help What should I do...PLEASE someone has to be out there with good advice..What should I do????PLEASE.... thank you so much for some ppl that help.. mack
2006-12-30 18:31:35 · 10 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
" Step lightly, but carry a big stick"! What do you want? It is possible that your present boyfriend is out of reach with you or is sick, the choice is yours, follow your heart and innerself. Before you do though, think twice, this friend of yours may be after only one thing. Search your heart and listen to it. Find out the circumstances before jumping to conclusions. A good rule of thumb is: " ask first, not shoot first"! another words, find out the reson your boy friend has not ontacted you or returned your calls. And just don't jump into a new relationship, as: " Don't jump into the frying pan after its fried"! or something like that....Don't go 'on the rebound' right off the bat. That could be dangerous and unfruitful....
2006-12-30 18:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by tombowling49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that isnt a love for a friend, i am sorry but it just isnt that is a good love more than a friend would have, and as for the the problem with the current boyfriend you need to evaluate how you feel around him is it the same as the other guy if not you need to ask yourself is it worth loseing a chance, maybe a break to see other people wouldnt hurt at least for alittle while to see where ya'lls relationship stands
2006-12-30 18:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by killerasp2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE LOVE LOVE everyone throws that word around. God how pathetic. So he doesn't talk to you---grow up, get a grip and move on. You better get your priorities straight and cool you panties,,,take a break. How old are you? You sound as if the age is a factor here--read a book and figure it out for yourself. If a guy is nice and he respects you and appreciates knowing you AND he is old enough to start seeing girls, ---start slowly making a relationship. From the essay you wrote, you should be doing more school work. Sorry, but you asked
2006-12-30 18:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to let the boyfriend go first of all if you decide to step into something else and if this person can make you smile and is always there for you then maybe you should give being happy a try because life is too short to be miserable. Good Luck!
2006-12-30 18:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...the thing is with your bf not contacting you, has your mind wandering because he isn't given you the attention that this friend is...so there is nothing wrong with being friends with a friend and loving that friend for who and what he is, just try to keep it friendly until you find out for sure what's going on with your bf. Try not to allow your mind to wander any further in thinking negatively, just try to stay neutral and enjoy the friendship that you have with this new friend. Just be honest to yourself, first..and that will help lead you toward the correct path....Take care and Be Safe...(smiles)
2006-12-30 18:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't/shouldn't really do anything until you figure out what the deal is with your current b/f. I would call him and ask why he has been ignoring you. It sounds like it might be time to move on with or without this new guy unless your boyfriend went away for the holidays. If that is the case, it is possibe that he has no way to contact you.
2006-12-30 18:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by ruckusssss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could follow ur heart and if u dont luv the other guy then just speak to him privately about it and im sure he'll understand and if ur bf is really not talking to you then...dont send the other guy completely out of ur life b4 knowing that if ur bf still likes u
2006-12-30 18:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Punt your boyfriend and stay open, you wouldn' t be asking this question if you weren't thinking of this solution!
2006-12-30 18:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by lartor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen to ur heart if u luv him as more then a friend but ur dating ur bf listen to ur heart
2006-12-30 18:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ali J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i woulnt go to someone eles that fast!!!!!!!!do u no what i mean??????
2006-12-30 18:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by Erin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋