I just got out of a 3 year relationship 7 months ago. Now i'm ready to get back into the dating world. There is this guy that I am really attracted to and at first I though he was really attracted to me also because of the things he use to say to me, the way he acted and the little messages he would send me (this was in November). He knows how I feel about him. Now I think he just wants to have sex with me. We have had sex in the past but he has stopped doing all the little things he used to do.Now he only call me if he wants sex ( he never says he wants it though). He knows my ex also ( We all go to the same University. Do u think my ex-Boyfrind has something to do with it?What is his problem? What is going on with him? I do I get him to like me and take me as more than a sex toy ( I don't have sex with him anymore)? I need positive answers please ( no negativity).
2006-12-30 18:23:09 · 13 answers · asked by LadyofLuxury 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself and tell him how you feel. If he don't give you the answer that you want, don't settle for less and leave him alone. Take care and know that you are worth being treated like the queen you are.
2006-12-30 18:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen--you lost this guy long ago, you just cannot make someone like you or do anything for that matter. You have the sex in a meaningless way--it was probably terrible for him or you or both--won't get better so move on and don't be so quick to lay down for some guy. The problem is you--are you surprised??? You would do well to read a book or two about what a relationship and love is really all about.
2006-12-31 02:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know that is tuff. But if you ever want to not have contact with him at all just ask him to marry youLOL. Maybe you should tell him how you feel and if he doesnt listen see other people for a while and then he will realize you are serious
2006-12-31 02:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by bebegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As negative as this may sound, you shouldn't have to make someone like you. I asked the same question and that's what people answered--it sounds reasonable, dont you think? There are plenty of fish in the sea who would like you for your personality, instead of how good you are in bed. God Bless :D
2006-12-31 02:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by Angel_luva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe by not calling yourself xena warrior princess... just kidding!
I'd say find someone else. Guys who call you for sex obviuosly don't want a relationship, otherwise at least he'd be dating you and trying to get the sex at the end
2006-12-31 02:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have an honest conversation with him and ask him what his agenda is. You need to tell him, how you feel, but don't point the finger at him and say "you make me feel", because this doesn't go over very well.
2006-12-31 02:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just be yourself. And most of all focus on YOU! Work on yourself.......set a goal everyday to improve the important things.
Spirituality
Character
Health
Selflessness
Improving yourself will bring the right one to you. Someone who will be looking to add to your life and not taking what they can get!
2006-12-31 02:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by The Saint 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. look hot
2.make hem notes you
3.were makeup
4.look hem in the eye
5.let hem ask you out
6.play hard to get for a little bet
2006-12-31 02:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by cheryl e 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling your first instinct may be the right one. Be careful of this character.
2006-12-31 02:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to start the relationship over and take things slowly.
2006-12-31 02:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋