How do I prove to my boyfriend that I wasn't going to cheat on him and it was just dinner with a friend. And prove to him that I still love him and he's the only guy for me ever no matter who else is around me at any given time at the end of the day I want to be with him and nobody else?
2006-12-30 18:12:29 · 13 answers · asked by Bee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bee...If you assure him and constantly show your love and support to him, make him comfortable with your intentions, hold him close, love him dearly I think that he will understand. If you have made him unsure of your love it will be harder.
2006-12-30 18:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the foundation of a good relationship, and it sounds like you don't have that. Maybe he is naturally a mistrustful person, in which case nothing you do is going to help, or maybe you acted untrustworthy by not telling him in advance about your dinner with a friend. The only thing you can do is sit down and discuss this with your boyfriend, explain yourself, and ask what he would need to believe you. If nothing will make him believe and trust you, you'd better look for someone else.
2006-12-31 02:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by SL_SF 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's with you and the two of you are in a committed relationship, he should trust you. There is no point in being with someone that you do not trust. And if you care about him and know that you won't cheat on him (and have no desire to), you should be able to have dinner with friends whenever you feel like it. Maybe you should include him in more of your social activities and allow him to get to know your friends so that he feels at little more at ease. If he still doubts you...kick him to the curb and find someone that is ready for an adult relationship.
2006-12-31 02:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend does not trust you now,he won't trust you later. Lay the cards down on the table and let him know how you feel. if he still does not believe you or trust you then maybe you need to work on your relationship,it will never work ir you don't trust each other.
2006-12-31 02:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by Shortydeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. He has a trust issue. If he is like this now then it would be worse after marriage. I no longer see or talk to my best friend, because married this guy with a trust issue and he don't let her have any friends. I'm sure you love him, but you will never have any life. MOVE ON!!!
2006-12-31 02:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by justcurious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk it out. if he can't trust you, then what's really the point of it all? tell him how things went down and how you just want him to know that you love him and everything. give him some time, and if he still won't believe you, he's not even worth it.
2006-12-31 02:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by jbaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep reassureing him that he is the "one" and try to stay calm if he gets angery ( look at the situation from his point of view ). Also you may want to in the future steer clear of one on one outings with the opposite sex just to be safe
2006-12-31 02:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by killerasp2001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id be pissed at you if you were my gf and went for a one on one dinner date with some other man.
How would you react if he had done this?
No way you would just think it innocent.
2006-12-31 02:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like you could tell him what u just told a million people
2006-12-31 02:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by luvmexico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
praise the lord & you messed up
2006-12-31 02:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by RickeTy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋