He never told me how he felt, all he said was that he just doesnt want to date at the moment. But he did say that he would sleep on it, but I am pretty sure that he has made his decision. What should I do because he makes me feel so good? Why isnt that what he wants? He tried to tell me when he saw me the other day, but he said that he didnt think of it. What could this be telling me?
2006-12-30 17:58:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gah - you've got some good insights into our maimed minds...
There are (I suppose) some guys that can and are open about what's going on in our heads.
But, from a sociology standpoint - we're pretty much don't talk about feelings. Heck, I'm more comfortable talking feelings with my best friends wife than with anyone else...
Us men do want to make our women happy. At heart, that's really our primary goal... its what we (or at least I) want. A happy girl.
He may be confused, he may be afraid... or he may simply be the f**k and chuck kind of guy...
If you really want him - keep trying to talk to him, but don't seem desperate.
Just interested, sexy and maybe a tad concerned.
Eventually (if you're willing to be patient) you'll find out what he wants...
But be warned - he might simply be a talented pu**y marauder...
Best wishes - I'd love to be with a woman as concerned as you.
-dh
2006-12-30 18:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are guessing that the relationship could be going too fast, than it is probably going too fast! Going too fast can be very intimidating, and he is probably a little worried.
About 99.999 percent of the time, too fast = intimidation, not good!
Just let him think for a while, and if you get back together, go SLOWER! :)
I hope that things work out for you guys! :D
2006-12-30 18:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by kitties_n_llamas(Becca) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute. Men don't sleep on anything. Making snap decisions is what we do. Somethings afoot. Do some Scooby investigating.
2006-12-30 17:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wanted to date you, he would have.
He shouldn't have given you false hope by saying that he'd sleep on it. He cares about you enough not to hurt your feelings so he lied and said he forgot. He just doesn't want to date at this moment. Sorry.
2006-12-30 18:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a man with a paid for ranch home on an old Country Club Golf course. uhhh... oh damn.. that's me!
2006-12-30 18:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jack Tax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they can and they probably get cold feet and dont fell comfortable
2006-12-30 18:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by Matthew H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it just isn't meant to be...if you have communicated your love and willingness and he says whoa...then whoa...Leave him alone...
2006-12-30 18:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life
if you wanna talk email me at kane011592@yahoo.com
2006-12-30 17:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by kane011592 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2006-12-30 17:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by oreo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋