I was dating this girl for two years, and she basically broke up with me. Never said it, but she said she needed to grow up on her own, and have the college experience on her own, and just have her own experiences in general. She was balling the whole time we talked, and telling me how much I meant to her, and how much she loved me. I really loved this girl. We haven't talked or seen each other in over two months. She's the perfect woman for me, and I can't picture myself with anyone else. I let her go easy because I wanted her to be happy. We never fought, but had a few small disagreements with things she did. I told her I didn't believe in something she was doing, but that I wouldn't love her any less. Anyways, question is, should I tell her how much I want us to be together, or wait for her to come back? She MAY be going to a far off college in a year too. Is it even worth trying? I don't want to be that 70 year old unhappy guy talking about the one he let get away.
2006-12-30 17:55:06 · 9 answers · asked by biomeddude1026 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not clear whether she is going away to college and she wouldn't be in your proximity. If she is going away to study and if she is interested in you, and you said you love her and seem to be of cool temperament, then I would suggest that you wait till she finishes her studies. Then you can settle down with her. In the meantime maintain a rapport and whenever you have the time, join her for the vacation and recreation to foster the bond of attachment. I hope you have a good future with this friend.
2006-12-30 18:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing for sure...........never let an opportunity go by without effort and knowing what could have happened. Especially when it comes to affairs of the heart. If you truly love this girl, express your feelings to her. Don't let her get away without knowing what's in your heart. It's ultimately her choice after that, but at least you did what you needed to do for the chance of a lifetime to be with someone you deeply care for............Good luck! If she needs her space, let her go. If she wants to explore and discover, give her the freedom to do it, but always support her and be there for her. It it was meant to be, she'll be back.
2006-12-31 02:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think you should talk to her before she leaves. Being together for two years, even on and off, and you two still cannot communicate to each other effectively is pretty sad. DO NOT LET HER GO WITHOUT TELLING HER HOW YOU FEEL. She will make her final decision, but you will live knowing that you have done your part
2006-12-31 02:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mistie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to change her mind because even if you make here stay with you, after a while she will keep telling you what she let go for you and all that crap. If she really loves you, she will come back to you and she will not make you feel guilty for anything. Just try to keep the friendship and don't let here forget about you without being anoying.
2006-12-31 02:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by doval18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her right away. If she was that emotional while breaking up with you then she obviously still had feelings for you and it was extremely hard for her. Or maybe it wasnt her decision at all, mayber it was because of her family or friends. And if you still have feelings then you need to tell her. She needs to know how you feel and how youve always felt, but most importantly you need to tell her for yourself. That way ten years down the road you arent asking yourself "what if"
2006-12-31 02:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by jennababe_68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you sound sweet but there are so many girls out there maybe she just needs her space and time if thats what she said then maybe she just wanted to date around you can tell her how you feel but im sure if she wanted to be back with you she would have told you . but remember everything happens for a reason and i wish yah the best of luck
2006-12-31 02:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOunds like she wanted the space. But you can go ahead and give it a try. If she turns you down, then so be it. Move on... n
2006-12-31 01:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her but I think she wants to concentrate on her studies right now without distraction.Keep in touch as friends for now.
2006-12-31 01:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bacicly.............i would call her up if i were you and tell her how you relly fell and in this sistuation it also would be hard but try to talk her to coming closer to were you live
2006-12-31 02:01:47 · answer #9 · answered by Erin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋