so me and my friend will hang out with this group of guys every week and they always flirt with us, and are totally fun, and then the very next day when we see them at school, they act like they dont even know us. and then we will just be sitting there all by oursleves and we have noticed they look at us alot, (and they are the most popular seniors, and we are freshman) and they dont even have the balls to come over and talk to us! why is that?? it bugs the heck out of us.
2006-12-30 17:35:59 · 15 answers · asked by girls in the hood 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You & your friend are naive.
2006-12-30 17:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I remember now. I remember what it was like to be a freshman. Those guys probably want to come talk to you at school but don't because of the status they are and how others might view it. Stupid I agree. I bet they eventually do include you at school. Just act cool and like it's no big deal when you are around them on the weekends.
2006-12-31 01:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because their little boys trying to act like their the big tuff cool seniors & are too good to be hanging out in school with young freshman such as yourselves. It's all about their reputaion of the school.... High school is filled with drama! Why waist it on cocky senior fellows who apparently think pretty low of you guys.....I say forget them!!! Where will they be in your guys'es future??? I'm sure there is plenty of others guys you all can hang out with over the weekends....
Good luck girls =]
2006-12-31 01:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are afraid of you. They know that they are attracted to you, but because they are seniors and you are freshmen, they have this popularity thing and an unspoken code of conduct. Just enjoy the time you spend with them. Maybe they will decide that they don't care what anyone thinks. Eventually they will grow up and their maturity level will catch up with yours.
2006-12-31 01:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by justcurious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if they are seniors and popular they aren't going to want to be seen with freshmen. If I were you and your friend I'd stay clear of these guys. You two are obviously young and naive and they will definetly take advantage of that!
2006-12-31 01:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They hang out with you when it is convenient for them. Just walk up to them and hang out with them at school. If they act shocked just say" ok its ok to hang out with us but only out of school, so that makes you an A......., jerk" They might think that your not talking to them.......how do you know untill you try.
2006-12-31 01:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are using you. Most likely, their goal is to get as friendly with you as possible, gain some trust and then use their status as "senior" compared to your "freshman" to lure you into doing things you might not ordinarily do....maybe sexual favors, things to please them. Things you might do for them if they start paying attention to you.
I wouldn't hang with them anymore. A real friend is not someone who ignores you in public.
2006-12-31 01:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by ssssss 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's a senior thing they act as if they can't socialize with a bunch of freshmen in front of their peers.
2006-12-31 01:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They probably really like you, but, you know, your not "cool" enough to talk to them when their around other ppl. Just play it cool, remember its normal, guys do that all the time.
I KNOW!!!
2006-12-31 01:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because they are guys and they're stupid. If they don't have the guts to come up to yall then tell just don't worry about it. If they decide to come up to yall one day tell them you're not interested because they took to long. :-)
2006-12-31 01:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by LadyofLuxury 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they are more comforable when its just in a group but they are very uncomforable in public. good luck and have a happy new year.
2006-12-31 01:38:07 · answer #11 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋