Question for Guys . . . Men intimated by (don't approach) an attractive woman? Why ?

Question

I'm not Victoria Secret Beautuful, yet am found to be pretty and attractive. I am attentive of my appearance, shape.

Anyway, I recently posed the question about why a man would not approach an attractive, smiling woman.

A few replied that a man might be intimated by an attractive woman. That maybe she has " strong body language ", as one put it.

Why would a man be intimated to approach an attractive woman who shows to be friendly, confident, peaceful, assured body posture and ' body language ' (as one phrased in his answer).

There are many very nice woman out here with dear hearts who happen to be attractive and confident, yet gentle and adore and respect men.

Why do some men not approach an attractive woman ?

If he's intimated . . . Why . . . we want to meet and talk with nice men.

Truely don't understand. Any insight appreciated.
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Answer 1

Fear that if a girl is too good looking that she already has a boyfriend or she's so good looking she wouldn't waste any time on my average looking ***.

Answer 2

I think that mos men wont approach and attractive woman out of fear of rejection. Now granted, a woman may give all of the sure signs; smiles, eye contact, even body language. Yet a woman may still reject you.

Some woman do it for sport, some woman like the looks but when they get a bite they quickly throw us back. Most men in defense just don't bother. In fact a lot of guys wait to be approached and most of the woman who do approach men aren't always that attractive (I'm not saying only ugly woman are aggressive.).

Attractive woman may feel that they don't even need to approach a man. So, they sit and wait and often times (in my opinion) radiate a "I'm not approachable" vibe.

If you see a guy and you welcome his attention and don't wanna jump way out there. Just look his way, make a little eye contact and just say hi! No tricks or strategies, he will know you are some what interested and to try and seal the deal.

At that point it is up to a guy to guarantee his own success wit good conversation and chorisma.

Remember, sometimes you gotta give a little to get a lot ;)

Answer 3

We're not worthy! We're not worthy! We're not worthy!

Your body language tells us that you do not want to be approached.

You're attractive enough that you must already have a boyfriend.

I don't want to be publicly humiliated, or privately humiliated, by your rejection of my approach or my offer of a date.

You're attractive enough that you will need a guy with a fat wallet to keep you satisfied.

Attractive women get "hit on" all the time, don't they? Do you really need another "hit"?

Nice guys don't try to pick up women without knowing them first; a proper introduction, some kind of connection, goes a long way.

Why don't you approach average nice guys and start up a conversation instead of waiting for some testosterone-poisoned MTV six-pack rock god to sweep you off your feet?

Answer 4

They're afraid to be rejected, of course. If you're honestly interested in nice men (I doubt that's all there is to it), you will almost always need to go and approach them if you are attractive. Also, you have to give the impression that you're interested in these guys. You have to at least talk to them! It couldn't hurt to ask them out sometimes either. Good luck!

Answer 5

Men don't like to fail--that's a natural fact--they think they don't stand a chance with a really cute girl. They sometimes know that they are not up to par--lousy hair, dirty teeth, crummy clothes---no cutie will be looking for that guy---if only they will clean up and grow up, they could have any woman they want. It is a sign of maturity--ever watch a 25 year old who acts like a 15 year old---how pathetic. Ultimately--pretty girls don't get out as often as people think--everyone avoids them --so they sit home with nothing to do. So my advice to the guys ----------
Go brush your teeth, clean and cut your hair, get a job, put on a smile and walk over and say HI...

Answer 6

You want to meet your idea of a "nice man,'' but that might be one out of a hundred. Look at what happened to the Average Joes. It's very easy to get burned.

Answer 7

I am shy by nature and pretty woman scare me. It is an irrational fear that I have taught myself to overcome when needed. I think context matters a lot. At a Swing dance, I will walk straight up and dance with anyone. In the library, I might make a joke with cute women who is working at a common table. However, in public I will generally not approach a lady at all.

Answer 8

There are a few reasons for this:

1. We think we have no chance. So we don't ask. For this reason many beautiful women find themselves being asked out by egotistical assholes since they always seem to have self-confidence in their "greatness".

2. We think you already have a guy!

Answer 9

Tough one. When I was younger I had a much easier time with women that were average. Women that I ran around with that were a cut above always gave me a lot of headaches. They were hot and they knew it and let me know it. Ultimately, I gave up on the super hotties as it was too much hassle. That is, until I met my wife!

That's my take on it. For me it was too much work.

Answer 10

I've never understood this, either. I'm not intimidated by beautiful women.