I like this girl. She recently told me that she didn't want a relationship. Yet, after telling me that, I made a comment about one of her photos on MSN and how nice it was... she offered me a copy of it!? Why would she do that? And, after she told me that she didn't want a relationship, she went ahead and told me (after she had been drinking) that she kisses people when she drinks... again, why would she have told me this?
Any opinions...
Thanks.
2006-12-30 17:28:33 · 19 answers · asked by dowboy98 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Interesting. Well, girls like the admiration and by commenting very nicely on a picture it probably boosted her self esteem. And people say and do things while drunk that they normally wouldn't say or do. That could just be the booz getting her to tell you more about herself for later incanse she might want to try a relationship. You seem to be kind, at least from that situation, hold out a bit if you want to and if she ends up dating you congrats!
2006-12-30 17:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by ~Les~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinkshe doesn't want a relationship, but it's nice to be appreciated and she likes the attention. It feels good- like a confidence booster, and that's why she offered you the photo. Again if she kisses people while drunk, it must be the same reason but she may feel kissing random people like that is more acceptable to herself when she is drunk- as that's her excuse for doing such things. There's not always a reason for people saying things like this to you except for maybe wanting to talk and hoping that you can try to understand her without her directly saying it to you. Maybe she tells you she kisses people when she's drunk also to see if you get jealous.. Who knows
2006-12-31 01:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes attention from guys. She gave you her picture because she knows you would be admiring her. Anybody cannot control themselves while drinking. She is being honest when she tells you that she doesn't want a relationship. She simply wants your attention & other guys as well.
Why would you want a girl who admits to carelessly kissing people while drunk??
2006-12-31 01:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are just little women. Women have no idea what they want and neither does this girl. She probably deep down inside wants a relationship, but can't commit to it. Be patient, she will grow up and grow into you.
2006-12-31 01:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by justcurious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to have her photo because she's a tad conceited (not that that is horrible)...
The kissing story I'm not sure about - it could b a number of reasons.
Why don't you ask her, "Why are you telling me these things?"
2006-12-31 01:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's flattered that you're interested in her, but it seems like she likes the attention and she'll continue doing and saying what she has becasue she likes the chase. Be careful, she will keep 'innocently' leading you on, so she can continue to have her ego boosted.
2006-12-31 01:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by NeedsAHint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she dosn't want a relationship , but wouldn't mind having relations. Sounds like she's inviting you to bed.
2006-12-31 01:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she afraid to tell yo that she really likes you but she just doesn't want to show it
or she is just a goof ball and with mixed emotions
it all depends on whether or not you really like or not and tell her really how you feel and she if anything changes if it doesn't than she isn't worth it
2006-12-31 01:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to want her ... meaning she likes the attention she gets b/c she knows you like her ... don't play into her games, it's very childish and you will be the one hurt in the end
2006-12-31 01:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe she wants the attention, but not the commitment. she is scoping many guys out at once. she does not want to be tied down at this moment in her life
2006-12-31 01:37:27 · answer #10 · answered by loverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋