There is this guy named Jason, who I go to school with and he was in two of my classes and I have had the biggest crush on him since our soccer class together in the spring. He'll talk to me. But I've tried asking him to 'hangout' but he always say's he is working or going out of town. How can I get him to hangout with me, even if it is only once?
2006-12-30 17:16:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True. But all my friends say when he is around me he is constantly looking at me, that is what is getting me confused.
2006-12-30 17:21:02 · update #1
Stop making all the moves and just stay mates for the time being.
If you meet another blokes and generally have fun with mates etc you may find that Jason becomes jealous and realises how much he likes you.
You can't force these things, if he's said no maybe he really doesn't fancy you or doesn't want to risk ruining your friendship.
2006-12-30 20:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Poppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop saying soccer and start calling it football :)
But really, Ask him directly. Not like, do you want to hang out with me sometime, more like...Look, I've got the biggest crush on you and I want to spend some time with you. Do you want to?
He will either say yes or no.
Yes is good. No is good.
If he says no, then at least you know for sure and will not kick yourself later in life at not having asked him.
With him being busy, this could be a sign that he's not keen, or that he's playing a little hard-to-get. If you ask him directly, you'll find out exactly what he's doing.
2006-12-31 08:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Diamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dokey
sooo he may be vaguely interested
but there may be a problem with him not
fully understanding how he feels towards u.
there may be another, sweetie.
or it may be that he has a problem with the way he feels
i.e. he feels shy about it because of his upbringing or philosophy on life.
i am in the uk but from what i can gather, if he plays
soccer, he may be gay, apparently.
not sure i agree with this personally as i used to play a lot
and i'm not gay.
any way, i wish u good luck and maybe u should ask him
to go to the movies with u.
xxxx
2006-12-31 01:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way i see it is either he is real shy or not in to you. you can try to find out if he is in to you by asking his friends or have your friends ask but that is like 8th grade type of ****. or u can try to make a movie on him. it could be as simple as touching him or go right for the goods. lol but if nun of that works and your hot he is a *** and hit me up.
2006-12-31 01:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by zack b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep asking him till u find a day when your both free.
ask if you can go to town with him.
i was in a similar situation xept i was the one always working. we found a day and i ended up having a great time with her and we hooked up and now we are going out.
just be patient and make sure he knows that you truly like him
2006-12-31 01:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Skipp 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he does not feel the same way. Why not speak to his friends. Otherwise you might have to look else where.
2006-12-31 01:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he maybe shy a bit tell him to find some time when yall can hang out
2006-12-31 01:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's extremely shy or he's not interested. Either way, probably the best thing to do is broaden your horizons.
2006-12-31 01:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by Barks-at-Parrots 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try using communication to see where he likes to hang out and magically run up to him lmao
2006-12-31 01:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by NNOSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is gay, u know gay and being shy is kind of connected together
2006-12-31 02:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋