I was recently talking to my ex as a friend and he ask me if i still love him. I felt very uncomfortable when he ask me that because I told him I am in a relationship now. I dont have any feelings for him other then as a friend. Now that my man know that well he had figured that out already he doesn't want me talking to him anymore. I like talking to him as a freind and that all but what should I do?? Make my man happy or make me happy?
2006-12-30 16:45:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on whether you love you man or not and how he treats you. If he treats you like a queen and all that then girl why mess up your relationship for something that's old get over it and move on. Good Luck. Peace and Blessings
2006-12-30 16:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by outspoken_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to respect your current boyfriend. Staying in touch with your ex makes you feel good because of the memories or because he stills loves you but it's not respectable. What would you want your boyfriend to do if he was in your shoes? If he was still friends and talking with an ex, you would be a little jealous. You need to appreciate the man you have or go back to the one you gave up. You can't have both.
2006-12-31 01:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your man isn't trying to control ALL your friendship/relationships, then I say you "give him this one" by giving up this friendship for now and concentrating on other friends that aren't exes. But if this is one of many guys that your man doesn't want you talking to ...so that he's trying to control all your relationships with other guys....I'd be hitching a ride out of this relationship with your man.
2006-12-31 00:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by lotsaanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing both ends of the field is not good. If you want to repect your man, then you need to tell him that your still friends with your ex. Wether or not he can accept it you have still repected him. right now you cheating in my book. It's not right, and if you want your relationship to grow then you'll be upfront. with yourself and your man. Be honest and true to yourself.
2006-12-31 00:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people are better the second time around... People desirve second chances because sometimes they change, if he hasn't just tell him he hasn't changed...
Thats still what I have to somehow tell my girlfriend... I have changed so much in the past 2 months but I am too afraid to call her... check out my question! :P
2006-12-31 00:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by seal160 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i still love my ex-girlfriend even-though she dumped me and went with some1 else. i called her too many times and she told me she has no feeling for me. that hurt too much. she told me we can be friend what friend if she broke my heart my dream. if he broke up with you or dumped you he doesn't deserve second chance unless you are not happy or not in love with current boyfriend. if you love your boyfriend then listen to him. no man likes that his girlfriend call or be friend to her ex. think where you be happy with your current or with ex. best of luck
2007-01-02 12:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by xroom_3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE ELSE THEN YOUR LOYALITY
IS TO YOUR MAN. NOT YOUR EX. HE THAT FOR A REASON
AND IF HE STILL CARE FOR YOU THEN MAYBE YOU SHOULD
NOT BE TALKING TO HIM ANYWAY. HE MAY WANT TO START
SOMETHING. BUT IF YOU FEEL THAT HE CAN UNDERSTAND
THAT YOU ARE HAPPY WITH SOMEONE ELSE THEN TALK
TO HIM AND YOUR BOYFRIEND SHOULD TRUST YOU.
IF HE DOES NOT THEN YOU HAVE A BIGGER PROBLEM
THEN YOUR EX. DONT YOU THINK.
2006-12-31 00:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i think you should go with what ur heart is telling you. obviously if its botherin you then u still have SOMe feelings...
2006-12-31 00:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by momma emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋