Me and Kieron were together for 2yrs we broke up this time last year, as i fell pregnant and he didn't want a baby said he was too young etc so he walked out on me, i had a termination in january and haven't spoke to kieron since that day in december we broke up, in july this year i started seeing this new guy Toby who am with now but still can't get kieron out my head, my heart is broken and altho im with toby its just a friendship more than anything.. help? when does it stop hurting? thanks all
2006-12-30 16:42:33 · 13 answers · asked by Hannah R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No offense but you need to let go of toby. He is probably a nice guy but honey he is just a rebound. He was a guy who you can cry on his shoulder but now you need to reevaluate things. This kieron dude walked out on you. That should be enough for you to realize that he was nothing for you anyways. I know that sounds harsh but please understand that if he truly loved you then he wouldn't leave you out in the cold like that. My suggestion would be to forget about kieron and continue a friendship and nothing more with toby. He seems like a nice guy. But do not under any circumstances get back with kieron. Also, write a journal. It will allow you to see in a tangible way what exactly you are feeling. Lastly, get a picture of kieron, put it on a punching bag, and release all the build up frustration you may feel about him. It will make you realize that he was no good for you anyways. You are a strong woman and there is a man out there for you who knows that but you just haven't met him yet. And this man would never leave you or give a lame excuse that he is too young to have a child. Good luck to you!! Hope everything goes well for you in your life.
2006-12-30 16:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just make yourself get over him it comes over time. I am still not over a guy as well it is hard i know just hang in there. I think you should talk to Kieron because not talking to eachother is immature and you should be the bigger person. i have noticed with myself that once i became friends with my ex it all went away and i didn't feel that way towards him anymore. that is just some advice i hope you take my words into thought!!
2006-12-31 00:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make yourself really dislike him. I went through a similar situation ( 3 year relationship) and i am just getting over him (after 6 months). Try to keep him out of your head and when he does pop into your head think of how he left you while you were pregnant. That will start to make you dislike him ( but not hate him) Good luck
P.S. The hurt will go away. It just takes time. It could take months or years. Just hang in there.
2006-12-31 00:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by LadyofLuxury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in love once, it took upwards of two years before I stopped think about even the slightest thing like his hands, I didn't date anyone for about 1 and a half years, it was ok to go on a few dates for me, but nothing serious for a while.
2006-12-31 00:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by amber.rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will heal most wounds. You must focus on what here and now not won what could have been. Frankly dear he is not someone you want to be with...if he walked out on you for the reason he did. He is not worth having...
Good luck moving on...
2006-12-31 00:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by ~Just A Girl~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately the only thing that will heal it is time. Keep doing your day to day thing and let Toby know how you feel so that you don't hurt him. Otherwise, just keep going and little by little you'll heal and feel better.
2006-12-31 00:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what that guy did to you was very bad, and I know it hurts to be the one that was left. However there is no bigger jerk thing to do than to get a girl pregnant and leave them. Only time will heal it, but remember that he was a jerk anyway and you will be better off.
2006-12-31 00:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by michael p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey so sorry 2 hear bou dis u c ma frnd was goin through da exact same thing last year her b/f left her afta makin her pregnent but she still didn't lose faith she knew he would return 2 her someday n he did she didn't c any otha guy she hung round her bestie tho who was a guy but she knew he b/f wud return. he acctually came runnin back 2 her saying sorry all da time n now dere happy 2geda wid twinzzzz!!! anywayzz just wait make him jealous dat u've got some1 else n he'll come back feelin guilty dat he eva left u trust me!!! chao!! LOLZZZZ!!!
2006-12-31 01:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by $xe chic!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit thinking about your ex and get into another relationship or do something to get your mind off of that person.
2006-12-31 00:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time
2006-12-31 00:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by Colin Night 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋