with a 3 year old? I am recently divorced and i have sole custody of my son. Im interested in pursuing other relationships but are huys ok with dating a divorcee with a child?
2006-12-30 16:40:42 · 12 answers · asked by vicki V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do all guys care about how women look? what if that woman has a really good heart and they wont stick around ot find out?
2006-12-30 16:47:23 · update #1
It kinda depends on how old you are. But yeah, I think you might have some trouble. I expect that you will have problems, especially if you are under 30. At any age, having children is a burden and will be a demerit. But after a certain age, I think there are SO many women with children that guys HAVE to date women with children. Not to mention that some of those guys also have children. I think that is the crowd you will have the most luck with -- men with children already. Good luck!
OK, I see you added some details. Let's see . . . .
Why do all men care about how women look? Well, why do women care about how men look, or how much money they make? Don't act as if that isn't true, because it is. And from what I have seen, women are at least as picky as men -- often even more so. As long as you are decent looking and not too heavy, I think you can probably get along with most guys. I honestly can't say the same about women from my own experiences.
Of course you need a good heart. Without that, there is no way that a decent guy will get along with you. But you can't have a repulsive appearance and expect that they will want to approach you first. So if you're carrying a spare tire, you might want to get rid of it. Don't take it overboard, but don't neglect the fact that appearance matters. Everyone really wishes that appearances wouldn't matter, but that just isn't the case in this world. Good luck!
2006-12-30 16:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet someone be upfront and honest. Be proud you are a parent of a three yr old and let them know you have a child.
But Don't introduce your child to every person you are dating.
Now a days it is not a major issue if you are divorced.
Stay away from the bars and clubs , Rarely will you find the right person there . Try joining a parents without partners group or an online singles dating service or meet people through friends and relatives. You will meet a lot of nice people in the same situation as yours . As a single parent for 27 years I did the dating thing both on and off line . My kids and I built a good relationship with one another and I also met some very nice guys over the years.. 3 years ago I married one!
So go on ..what are you waiting for ...Get out there and DATE
Best of luck to you.
2006-12-30 16:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by That_ blue_ eyed_ Irish_ lass 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all be happy your single again. Makeover time. then all you have to do is mingle, talk to people. Have confidence when you walk into a room, and all the men will come to you. Smiling works wonders. You be surprised of the energy you'll recieve. I have children too, the one thing I know I did right was kept my personal life away from home. No exceptions Have fun, start doing things you wish you had when you were married. You'll find someone who like the same things you like.
2006-12-30 16:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the dating I am still trying to find that out for my self, that is mostly for the under 24 crowd and I want a women. When you have a kid that lives with you, most of the guys who would want you arent worth your time, and the type of guy you need are hard to find, You have to really look at who they are, are you may put your child at risk of getting hurt as well. I can only speak for my self, but while looks matter, more or less that is one of the less important things to me. Looks change with age, the older you get the less it matters. As
2006-12-30 17:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think divorced people should start dating again, unless they got divorced becaues their partner was unfaiithful.
To tell the truth, I'm sick and tired of divorce, and I wish it would be made illegal, except for the above reason only.
The wedding vows go like this:
"For better or for worse, in sickness and in health, until death do you part."
Again, I want to make divorce illegal, and I hope that there are a lot of people who have to stay married and miserable if they don't like it, tough.
And that's not evening taking into account the effect all of this has upon children.
2006-12-30 16:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It may be a little hard at first but just jump right in there. How will you ever know what else is out there for you if you don't try.
2006-12-30 16:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by LadyofLuxury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All we care about is what u look like, the rest are minor details.
2006-12-30 16:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey darl you will be find... Just means you will have to be very selective with who you bring home...
Good luck
2006-12-30 16:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by angelicrulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are all humans, trying to connect and forgetting God.
try www.match.com
and learn from your penis in your vag experience, so next time will be better.
2006-12-30 17:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find someone guys dont care as much as they used to.
2006-12-30 16:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by mike j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋