I have know this girl for 1 year untill she turned 18 to start dating. I am older, but I want to be cautious to start dating. Her family likes me, but I still have some reservations. Could anyone lend experience or suggestions. She is amazingly beautiful and her personality is amazing.. Help and thank you!
2006-12-30 16:38:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you two have a really good thing going? If you both enjoy each other's company, and see eye to eye on alot of things, it should be no problem. The main thing to think about is maturity. Is she mature? Do you want to feel younger? If you two get very serious, will she tell you one fine day she feels deprived and wants to play the single scene now? It all depends on what kind of people you are.
Of course, in your mind you already know what you want to do.
2006-12-30 16:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by dkuddle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you just answered your own question with "She is amazingly beautiful and her personality is amazing". If you think of her that way then you shouldn't have to ask. Just because she's 18 and a virgin doesn't mean she's undatable. I don't know where you're from (I live in Quebec where when you turn 18 you're considered an adult by the provincal government) but if it is the same where you live then that makes you both consenting adults. If there is chemistry between the 2 of you (chemistry is always awesome) and you both are into each other then why deny your feelings for each other. I'm not saying to sleep with her but give her a chance and see what happens. The worst is after a date you realize it's best to stay friends. Keep the faith my brother.
2006-12-30 16:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by DLG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend for now because if you start dating then the whole relationship will subconsciously revolve around her virginity plus the fact that she's barely an adult would make it seem like you are taking advantage of her if you two break up
2006-12-30 16:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by tigoness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seem like you're already really interested in her. I'm mentioning this because you stated that she was a virgin, so obviously it's on your mind. Why would you want to not date her? Is it because she's a virgin? If that's the reason that's a lame excuse. Is it because you think she's saving herself for marriage and she won't be "putting out"? I mean if you like her and you get along you should date her.
2006-12-30 16:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's a problem. If you both dig eachother, what's the big deal? She's legal, and it's just 9 yrs. My uncle is 9 yrs older than his wife. Don't worry what others think, just do your thing.
2006-12-30 16:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're too old for her. Find someone closer to your own age. Good night!
2006-12-30 16:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're to old. Stay away.
2006-12-30 16:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by LadyofLuxury 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋