This guy and I are friends but I made it a mess..he always said he could never be angry at me. I told him now I like him more then my XBF but my XBF hurt me by pushing me down the stairs. I know sent him text messages and tell him I miss him but I couldn't talk to him because I was hurt he usually waits online for me. And today he is waiting so I said Hello but he didn't answer..before all the mess he did but he is in the military so his chatting is off and on. After he didn't talk I sent him a message that said it looks like he doesn't want to chat so I won't bother him and I had to go to to the doctor. But it looks likes he still waiting online before it show he idle. What should I do..I am scared to talk to him again..I think he does care but he is probably not sure where my XBF is I didn't tell him I left him..I think we are both scared...He is in the military in Asia and I am working in Asia now He is still online and not Idle but maybe he is playing a video game..
2006-12-30 16:31:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do think he cares because if he didn't his cellphone would be off but now its always on..so I know he care but how much I don't know
2006-12-30 16:32:18 · update #1
I haven't talked about my XBF so shouldn't that tell him I am not with him?
2006-12-30 16:43:47 · update #2
Stop the chaos and playing games and be honest with him. Tell him your feelings. Forget all the drama and keep it simple.
2006-12-30 16:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being in military, there is probably some party place he will be checking out for the girls. You are away and he wants his needs to be satisfied. Now on the cell phone, he does not have to answer it. If he is or wants to be serious with you, he will probably tell you. Now if you have left your ex bf you should tell the guy, duhhhhh. He is like me, which is not liking to talk to girls who are married or have bf.
2006-12-31 00:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT COULD BE THAT HE DOES NOT KNOW THAT YOU
HAVE GIVEN UP THE OTHER GUY, SO JUST TELL HIM
THAT YOU MISS HIM AND THAT YOU WANT TO SEE HIM.
HE MAY FEEL THAT YOU HAVE GONE BACK TO THE EX.
IF YOU CANT TELL HIM, THEN CALL HIM WRITE HIM
BUT DO SOMETHING SO THAT HE CAN KNOW THE DEAL
BEFORE IT TOO LATE.
2006-12-31 00:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're reading way too much into it. if he wants to talk to you, he will talk to you. don't stress yourself out worrying if the reason he is not talking to you is because he might be playing video games.
2006-12-31 00:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋