This guy asked me out and i said yes, but we havent set a date or anything. the night before last he was really upset and i tried to comfort him but i could tell he just wanted to be left alone (on y!messenger). he signed off without saying bye, but i understood. we talk every night, but last night he just signed in and out real fast. Today he signed in and i said something about saving me from my boredom and he buzzed me and signed out.
2006-12-30 16:25:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That doesn't sound right.....seriously.
2006-12-30 16:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm. Are you sure he's not trying to avoid you and his feelings for you? Maybe he doesn't know how to react to you letting him in. Boys love the chase but after wards some of them just fall off the love tree. sad but true. He sounds like he likes you but maybe he feels awkward.
2006-12-30 16:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by Pooh Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think,out of whatever you have posted here,this guy ... isnt really ... serious about the relationship .. he is a lot going on in his life and until you know what it is and what needs to be done .. things are not going to settle itself .. Please understand you have your self respect ..its better to wait for someone who is really respectful of you .. other than just hurt yourself this way ..
Come on,take charge of your life and let not people dominate it ..
All the best !
2006-12-30 16:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by SunshineGal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt want to talk about it there is not much you can do but just let him know it bothers you to see him upset and that you are there for him if and when he wants to talk
2006-12-30 16:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a family member passed... Try to call him and ask him what`s wrong!!! If you 2 are dating he should tell you the truth!!
GOOD LUCK!! : ) : ) : )
2006-12-30 16:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well who the hell knows until you at least tell the guy
I hope it is someone you aare looking forward to seeing and spending some time talking to and hopefully alot omorre aaaaa?
2006-12-30 16:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by As Good As I Once Was 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it might take time but next time try and talk to him. good luck and have a happy new year.
2006-12-30 16:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him. After all, if you can't have communication now then you shouldn't even go out.
2006-12-30 16:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by red_shorty_76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋