ok so i just caught my boyfriend of almost 3 months cheatin on me this is not the first time he has done it eather but 4 the longest time i just could not break up with him cuz he kept saying sorry and that he would never do it again and he did and so 2day i finally broke it off with him and i feel so shitting now cuz i still love him and i cant stop thinkin anout all the good times with him!!! what r some things that i could do 2 get him off my mind??? (keep it clean thanx)♥
2006-12-30 16:24:47 · 25 answers · asked by crazysami1313 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all I would like to congradulate you for dumping that idiot. Now, you just have to move on and try not to call him or even talk to him. Let time pass by before you meet somebody else, and just spend some time with your friends. Enjoy your youth and dont worry about any drama. Now that your single invest some time to yourself, a new wardrobe or hairstyle. Don't let this breakup make you look like you went down hill. Cheer up and everybody will notice.
2006-12-30 16:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Old habits die hard. I say that if he does it once, there's a slim chance he'll do it again. But, if he does it many times, he's already in the habit of doing it. He feels like he can do it and get away with it because you've been forgiving him. I know it's hard, especially if you have feelings for him, but sometimes you have to choose what is right for yourself. If you tell yourself over and over you forgive him, but deep down you truly don't, that might be one of the reasons why he sticks in your mind. You're letting his actions get to you, and by the sound of it, he doesn't truly care about you anyway. If he did, he'd respect you enough not to cheat.
2006-12-30 16:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by anarchy_anime_addict 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first time blame him, second time blame yourself. You have to get over this guy. Something I have learned in my life that is hard to accept but so true is that people change and there is nothing you can do about it. There are many guys out there you could have good times with, besides he is not even the same anymore so it is a lost cause...
2006-12-30 16:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's all pretty new so of course it's going to be on your mind. Go pamper yourself and get lost in a good book, or movie, anything to take your mind off of it.
Doing the right thing isn't always doing the easist thing. You deserve better than a liar and a cheater.
2006-12-30 16:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just remind yourself that if hes willing to put you through this, Then maybe he just doesn't deserve to be on yourm ind so much. I think it's great that you finally got brave to go ahead and end things with him, All you need to do is keep up with it, You're strong, And you can do it! We all have faith in you! And Ben and Jerrys ice cream is also nice for when your feeling down o.O
2006-12-30 16:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 months is not a long time compared to a life time. You did the right thing, because he is not to be trusted as he has proofen to you. Go out with your friends and find yourself another boyfriend.
2006-12-30 16:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, don't listen to break-up songs because that will just give you a hard time.
Second, get involved in activities such as basketball , soccer , or anything else.
Third, Avoid him as much as you can.
Fourth, Get OVER HIM , there are more than ONE MILLION GUYS , I REPEAT , ONE MILLION GUYS that are worse or might be better than him. Don't think he's the only one.
2006-12-30 16:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 3 months you should have let him go after the first time get someone new in your life to forget about him
2006-12-30 16:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him off your mind by focusing on the bad parts of him, and meet up w/ your lady friends, enjoy the simper things in life, and somehow tell your guy how lucky he is 2 still hav u by his side.
2006-12-30 16:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by Trippy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get dressed up... call his best friend aka best friends like the same women. go party with the best friend and rock his world like cirque du soliel on acid.... that will get back to the cheatin batsage and you will have gotten even and gotten off
2006-12-30 16:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by DOMINATUS 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋