We'll call them Jack and Jill. They used to date, but they broke up a couple of months ago. And it wasn't exactly a friendly breakup, either. Because I hang out with both of them, I kind of felt caught in the middle. They would argue if they were in the same room for more than 15 minutes, and they would talk **** about each other when the other wasn't around. But I could always tell that there was still something there between them. Every now and then, when they thought no one was looking, they would hug or manage to have friendly words with each other. But personally, I think that this is all because they're just desperate to be with somebody and they can't stand being alone. Just yesterday, I saw them shopping together like a couple. Both of them are very opinionated, and I know that if they date again, they'll just break up again, and the cycle will continue. Should I tell them that this a bad idea or should I step back and let them find out on their own?
2006-12-30 16:24:37 · 5 answers · asked by mikey062804 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, at the very least I would tell them both that you don't want to be a sounding board for the nasty things they say about each other.
You can't do anything about it if they both want to live in drama, but you don't have to participate.
2006-12-30 16:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not get involved i have two friends that were going through the same thing and know htey are the cuple of the month.
2006-12-31 00:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by cindy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. It's none of your business. If you have your eye on Jill, forgetaboutit.
2006-12-31 00:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT YOU JUST NEED TO STEP BACK AND LET
THEM FIND THERE WAY, BACK TO EACH OTHER OR
NOT. BUT JUST BE A FRIEND TO THEM BOTH.
2006-12-31 00:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you need to let the ones you love learn it for themselves
2006-12-31 00:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by ghetto fabolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋