So i was at a party and a girl fell down the stairs a busted out laughing loud and annoying. Everyone glared at me and said wow you must be really drunk. I felt really awful after I appoligized to the girl and told my friends that i felt bad about it, but they keep bringing it up...it really isnt a big deal but its just out of character of mr to do that and i dont want to be seen as the drunk girl who acts out of control. What would u do i cant get this off my mind???
2006-12-30
16:20:49
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She wasnt hurt or anything. Its just the way i laughed at her it was like a screaming outburst, my friend even did it back to me to hear how annoying it sounded...ugh awful i feel like crap
2006-12-30
16:32:20 ·
update #1
oh and another thing is that i laughed at her after she walked back up the stairs....so it wasnt like she fell i laughed it was like she feel walked back up the stairs and i looked at her and laughed in her face! wow im a B****!!!
2006-12-30
16:35:40 ·
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fall down the stairs yourself.
2006-12-30 16:22:37
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answered by Anonymous
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It's good that you feel bad because it shows that you have some conscience. It was however in very poor taste to do this. If the excuse was that you were drunk, maybe you should drink less. It makes you look like an obnoxious drunk not an out of control drunk. Imagine your most embarrassing moment and I am sure that's how she felt. Try being a little more responsible for your actions.
2006-12-30 17:01:24
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answered by AngelWings 2
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Well, did you wait to see if she was injured before laughing? If she was clearly okay, laughing is permissible. If she was hurt, it might be considered insensitive to laugh, at least within earshot of the landing zone. I think you feel guilty because you're a girl and girls are supposed to be more sensitive than that. Reverse the situation: If a guy fell down the steps, regardless of whether that guy was hurt, every other dude in the room would be rolling on the floor. Don't let it eat you up. You apologized to her, let it go.
2006-12-30 16:26:50
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answered by samson 1
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you realized your mistake, and you made amends you cannot do anything more. If you continue to feel bad about it you could send the girl some flowers and appoligize again, but let that be the end of it. there is a saying in AA, you can only clean your side of the street. I would rather have a friend who steps in it once in a while and makes up for it than one who does nothing at all.
2016-03-29 01:36:45
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm giggling at the thought of her and you
I do stuff like that to its terrible but sometimes it just looks so funny even though they could have been hurt.
Have you noticed its so hard to ask a person if there OK when your cracking up laughing
You will be OK tell your friends to lay off if you fell you would probably be laughing then as well, I have you feel so silly,
but the look on their faces is priceless
2006-12-30 16:29:10
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answered by deb m 4
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You apologized to her, which should put your mind at ease a little. Remember though, that it's only okay to laugh at things like that if the person they happen to gets up and laughs first, and they aren't hurt.
2006-12-30 16:31:04
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answered by rebekkah hot as the sun 7
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wow thats was nice
jkes tell her your very sorry, were drunk, and will never do that again
and also for the possible sympathy vote you could tell her you got dumped by your boyfriend and were drowning your sorrows in beer
just make sure no-one who knows that you do/dont have a boyfriend doesnt hear
2006-12-30 20:11:30
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answered by Anonymous
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I think you realize you shouldn't have laughed, and you did apologize to the girl, so your friends should quit bringing it up.
2006-12-30 16:59:28
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answered by Sandy Lou 4
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Sounds like you were drunk and out of control, and not very funny or nice. Perhaps check out AA
2006-12-30 23:27:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Its so cool to be drunk.
never apologize.
have another drink and every thing will be o.k.
one day you will fall DOWN and they can all laugh at YOU.
Stay with me Sway with me
Ha ha ha ha ha ho.
2006-12-30 16:30:21
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answered by Anonymous
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