2006-12-30 16:12:09 · 16 answers · asked by angel star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make someone love you. The best chance you would have is to move over there because long distance relationships don't work.
2006-12-30 16:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by Katie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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1) iam in a long distance r'ship...we have mail a common one that we send it backforth..we add things to it..and send it back to eachother.....we have catogorisd it like UR PLACE,MY PLACE,OTHER PLACE!
so we can add in and whenever we are together we have loads of things to do....
2)Buy an inexpensive decorative jar or container. Then buy 365 Hershey Kisses, one for every day of the year. On the Hershey paper tabs, write one thing you like, love, or appreciate about your significant other, and only allow them to have one each day for a year. It takes some time and thought, but they will think of you with every daily kiss. This is a great idea when distance is involved, but works wonders at home too.
3)If you are going to be away from each other for a long period of time, get a video camera and record things you do throughout the day. Send it to them, and have them do the same. That way you can still see each other, no matter how far apart you are.
4) get a webcam and chat with him!
5)send surprise love letters and cards!
6)mail him love greetings card for a month! My guy loved it
2006-12-31 03:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cute Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let anybody on here tell you that its not gonna work because it all depends on whether or not it is meant to be. My husband and i lived over 100 miles away from each other for the first 5 months of our relationship and he had a job that required him to travel and be gone for weeks at a time. there were periods of sometimes 1 month where we didnt see each other at all besides on webcam.now we are married and living happily ever after. so get a webcam and buy him one too and have fun with that. keep your head up and if it is meant to be then it will be. let him know that you want your relationship to work out and talk to him as much as possible about everything. living apart and talking being the only way you can really be together will strengthen yours and his communication skills with each other. that way when you finnaly do get to be with him everyday you will have no problem talking and making conversation with him since you got all that practice. take my word on this one...... communication is the key to having a good relationship.........
good luck
2006-12-31 00:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...I don't think so. If you two live in different towns its going to take a lot of work, and the odds are against you on this one. Just keep in touch over the phone or email...but thats about it.
2006-12-31 00:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh, people on the internet predicting relationships. If your relationship is anything special to him, he'll still be in love with you. Americans like to think that moving to the next town over, or even across state lines, means a relationship is finished. I've dated girls internationally and still made it work.
2006-12-31 00:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by Hotwad 980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a boyfriend, we live in different countries. 4 years together, im 19, andi jus moved away from my hometown winnipeg manitoba, canada, to st augustine FLORIDA. i'll be here for two years, and see him every 3 or 4 months. i wnat him to stay in love with me, but the only way he will, is if he truely loves me. and if you both believe you will stay together, and plan for the future, (not to far ahead of yourselves) but you know plan so you have a smile to look forward to, you'll make it and he'll stay in love with you. i promisee my dear
2006-12-31 00:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out-of-town relationships rarely work. Don't expect him to stay in love with you or you him....things can happen. Best of luck to you though.
2006-12-31 00:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by red_shorty_76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not talk to him excessively over phone(try being like a very understanding & caring friend than being a lover), have meetings with him pereodically(either u go his place or he comes to urs)......there should no sign of untrust in ur talks with him, but do observe & inquire about his new relationships & habits in a very casual way, so that u can have track of where is he going.
2006-12-31 00:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by jackhammerdopiaza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both "In Love", then it doesn't matter where either of you lives. That's the whole in love thing. If it's real, it doesn't go away.
2006-12-31 00:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you to then he will not cheat.and if you have family live inthe same town of him then you could stay with them to see him.
2006-12-31 00:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by Stevie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋