at giving my bf a lapdance
2006-12-30 16:08:40 · 16 answers · asked by yo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOl i was thinking the exact same thing last week. my boyfriend realyl wants me to give him one, but when it comes to that i have no self confidence. WELL he surprised me and orderd me carmen electra lap dance video and it doens't tech you a lap dance on aguy, btu it deffidnetly gives you AWESOME ideas and a shitload of confidence. but seriously, there is no bad lapdance, its all confidence. remmebr that you know what turns him on, you'll make him happier than any stripper could:P
2006-12-30 16:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do, get the lighting going first, candles, colored bulbs. Then you find something to wear fav panties or outfit. then you get some areas together, pillows on the floor, barstool nearby. You want to have play areas for you two. two or more I like. Get the disco ball out even. Then burn a cd ahead of time so all the right music is playing. Get your age appropriate toys out, sit your bf down, and start dancing in front of him. Think about it like this, go verrrrry slow bend over, you know if your man is a boob man,leg man, shoe man, you know, then start prancing around, show him what he likes to look at , then start rubbing on him, and with all your play areas, he will defintely be involved.
I can go into more detail, contact me if you need some additional advice.
2006-12-31 00:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead give it a try just move with the music and act like your at the club dont think of it as your not good or it will go wrong and if he likes it thats all that matters
2006-12-31 00:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by ibebarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your reason for giving him a lap dance? Don't subject yourself to things that you will regret later. Make him respect you and lap dancing is not a way to hold on to him. Tell him that you are better than that and if he wants and lap dance you want a ring...
2006-12-31 00:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by single2mingle22000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he'll like whatever you do. Just put some marvin gaye on and if your feeling silly try some dirty talk or sing along with the lyrics to "let's get it on" (marvin gaye) while your grinding on him.
2006-12-31 00:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by Shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
find a song you like and maybe practice on an empty chair
but even if your not great he will probably love it because it is the beautiful woman he cares about wanting to "entertain" him
2006-12-31 00:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Aviator1013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, there is no harm in trying. Its the thought that counts. Your giving him a gift. Just make sure that hes worthy.
2006-12-31 00:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Deezie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it stays between the 2 of you then who cares if it's humiliating.
2006-12-31 00:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by DLG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, there is no such thing as a bad lap dance :-) Go for it!
2006-12-31 00:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by mellokittyx4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try what can it hurt?
2006-12-31 00:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋