If you love something they say let it go and if it comes back then it was meant to be.I believe this is for people who believe in destiny.But I believe in choice and if you love something so much then you should fight for it or you might regret it for the rest of you life.
2006-12-30 15:51:13 · 24 answers · asked by Sincere923 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should fight for what you believe it but know when to admit defeat.
2006-12-30 15:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I believe in both statements. There are many different kinds of people, many different characters... If you let a weak person go, she won't come back... But if you fight for her, she will worship you as a saviour, hero. If you walk away from strong person, confident in himself/herself, in his/her feelings, than that person will fight for you.
PS I don't regret. I've xpirienced that few times, and simply promised myself, no matter how many troubles my actions may cause, I will follow my heart. I solemnly promised that I will never regret, never, not any more. And if that something doesn't work out, I will know that I did ALL I possibly could. And that it simply wasn't meant to be. I will fight till the end for love and friendship. I will do my best to do my best :)
2006-12-30 16:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in total agreement with you, if you love someone enough you will put forth your greatest effort to keep it. You will not idlely sit by and watch it walk out of your life, with the hope that one day it will come back to me - the profecy says so.
If it were to come back, you may be involved with someone else then, you or she may have changed in such ways you no longer work together, she may have baggage by then, there are many factors the profecy does not consider.
Sometime life calls upon us to firmly stake our feet into the ground, put our back against the wall, and make a definite final stand. The point where we will go no further and to fight for what we truly desire and love. In the face of this danger what we decide to do will dictate our future, and yes we may live the rest of our life wishing we could change just one thing, the choice we made.
2006-12-30 16:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight for it? As in what?
Begging? Threatening? Crying? Kickin' some rival's asster? Do you really think you'd be happy with someone you "got" via duress or pity?
Nor will a false, temporary wooing get you a satisfied mate. He/she'll think that's who you really are and be so resentful and disappointed if you're not.
If you are genuinely the right person from the start, and your chosen one is happy with the real you from the start [and vice versa], cool. Live happily ever after. But don't force it.
2006-12-30 16:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by LisaFlorida 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old saying, "It is better to have loved, than not to have loved at all", is so true, but to what extent? Do not become a door mat and let the other person walk all over you. If you love this person, and you fight for their love, and it is not reciprocated, you then ask the question, is this what is best for the both of us? Is this true love?
What sacrifices do you have to make? Realistically, you can't MAKE someone love you, and so, is this worth it? Ask these questions, think long and hard, and make your decision carefully.
2006-12-30 15:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say fight for it. I recently broke up with my boyfriend and we both believe in the whole destiny thing but now that we talk more we have come to see that neither of us really fought for "us" so that showed that maybe it really wasnt meant to be. Fight for your love and dont let go!
2006-12-30 15:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by brunettebeauty13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you mean "someone" here? Sure fight for love, it's what makes the world go round. But maintain your pride and dignity, and accept what you can't change, should you happen to lose it. You say you believe in choice and you can chose them but they have the right to not choose you, and there's not much you can do about that.
2006-12-30 16:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, if you love somthing so much and you dont think you can let it go you should go after it no matter what! If you dont you you will regret that you did not proceed it because you never know what will happen it could be good or not! Its all in your hands if you want to make it right or not!
2006-12-30 16:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by annmccy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wed like to say that it really depends on what ur fighting for ? example if a woman or man cheats on the other to be with the opposite sex let it go but if it wasnt bc either of the sexes cheated for someone else by all means fight for it
my wife and i have an understanding and have had this since we started talking back in august 06 and its that if ur wanting to be with the oppostite sex for sex or to cheat in anyway please by all means end it with the other dont go taking samples and find out later u want more
2006-12-30 15:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never cheer on fights, I mean if its a slapping game to see who can handle the most slaps, thats different. Fighting is incredibly dangerous and can result in a murder case.
2016-03-29 01:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have to "fight" for love by communicating and sometimes compromising. Relationships are not easy but the special ones are worth the extra effort to keep it strong.
Best of luck.
2006-12-30 15:56:16 · answer #11 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋