so do you all know how you talk to someone and get to know them before you date them. Well thats what someone and I was doing. So i startred to get some signs the signaled that he wasn't interested anymore. So the next time i talked to him on the phone I asked him very nicely I said this might sound dumb but do you still want to talk to me. he got really mad and kept saying things like well i dont know now that you asked me that and then he said you talking like you breaking up mind you all that we never went out. Then i said well what's your response? He says well since you asked that then the answer is no. He said I gotta think about this ill call you back later and he never called me back this happened on christmas day. I already made my mind up I wil ignore/avoid him. What I want to know is: Did I do anything wrong or him? I just needed to know where his interest was.? he just had a fit and i dont want to carry on with him. will try to talk to me again or is this just over?
2006-12-30 15:41:00 · 5 answers · asked by smfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds as if he lost interest, don't sweat him!
2006-12-30 15:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all no you didn't do anything wrong. Now it sounds like to me that he lost interest in you and he probably wasn't man enough to tell you, but it seems that you sensed that he was kinda loosing interest and you asked him. I think this was his way of "breaking up" with you because he was too afraid to tell you he wasn't interested anymore. So he tried to make it out like it was something you did. But what he did sounds so childish. Just get over him and find a better guy! Good luck!
2006-12-30 23:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i'm sayn is that he really needs to grow up if he couldn't express the way he felt to you personally and up front instead of beatn around the bush, if he really want to be with you he'll let go and grow up. All you do is give him some space for a little while, i promise you he'll be back.TRUST
2006-12-30 23:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by dynasties101 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I THINK THAT YOU DID THE RIGHT THING, IF YOU REALLY
NEED TO KNOW WHERE THIS WAS GOING,THEN YOU SHOULD HAVE ASK HIM THE FACT THAT HE GOT MAD
SAY HE NOT THE ONE FOR YOU. SO YOU DID RIGHT,
YOU KNOW NOW BEFORE YOU GOT SO INVOLVED WITH
HIM.SO NOW YOU CAN MOVE ON.
2006-12-30 23:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably had lost interest and you're asking him that gave him an easy out. sorry.
2006-12-30 23:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋