me and this guy have went out for 3 years and durin those we have broken up and gotten back together lik 6 times i think he really loves me but i don't no if i love him since i can't seem to stay w/ him b/c sumthin happens and we get mad and break up b/c of sumthin so is he the rite guy or not!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-30 15:06:12 · 9 answers · asked by gothic! so wat u gonna do!!!!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Instead of breaking up all the time... just practice on talking about how you feel, and how you want to resolve the situation. That type of communication will bring you closer, because he will feel more connected to you, because he'll know he can come to you for anything. 3 years is quite some time, don't waist it.
2006-12-30 15:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got in the same thing dear. Thought i didn't really love him but once when we broke up, i realised i loved him too much to let him go... (he was a complete bastard in the end)... Sit and think what would it be like if he didn't exist... Pain? You care about him and you're attached. You don't want to think about it? Then it's love! If you can't imagine it at all then ask for a break and you'll know but believe me, you should be grateful that guy loves you, some are still waiting...
2006-12-31 01:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by r33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three Year is a long period, why and what incident force you to break up is immaterial,take a pen and a paper, analyse the incident from the point of view of your partner and find your own faults , if you are honestly not able to find your fault, even after stepping in his shoes then break this relationship , if you think his fault is an emotional outburst/act then give him a chance.... ... you loves him that is why you are seeking advice....I will strongly recommend to give one more chance with open mind.......
try to avoid the incidents which create this type of misunderstanding...... be positive... wish you best of luck
2006-12-31 06:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by loving_indian4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL ITS UP TO U IF U LOVE HIM OR NOT BECAUSE ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAS BEEN THRU THE SAME THING AND WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 2 YEARS AND EVEN THO WE ARGUE AND SEPARATE I LOVE HIM SOOO MUCH AND WE ARE STILL TOGETHER SO U HAVE TO MAKE SURE THAT U HAVE LOVE FOR HIM BUT I THINK U DO BECAUSE IF U DIDNT U WOULDNT GO BACK TO HIM AFTER U 2 BROKE UP ALL THOSE TIMES. SO U JUST NEED TO ASK UR SELF IS HE WORTH IT OR NOT.
2006-12-31 02:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by bxshorty064 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont whether he is a good guy or not.. i am pretty sure tht ur not a good one.. yup really.. i am not lieing u will simply recieves maximum of messages like this
2006-12-31 01:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by shivaremo_vijayawada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both are example of western culture.
don't worry it happens with most of people in western countries.
2006-12-31 01:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by mast_kumar2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think about breakups coz in every relation we fight but think that you love him or not is more important
2006-12-31 00:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by riti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just care about him, but are you attracted to him? or is it just companionship thing.
2006-12-30 23:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by Twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both confused?
2006-12-31 08:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋