Sorry and need advice.?

Question

I hooked up with my best friend's girl. We were both drunk and she doesn't want to tell him. Do I tell him and take the hit??
Or wait til she tells or he finds out??
I don't want to lose a friend. It does go bros b4 ho's right?? Then he should be on my side, right??
*I don't mean that I think she is a whore(although many think she is)
Is it better for me to tell him soon here and deal with the fact that our friendship will be a little weaker(not destroyed tho)
OR
Not say anything until she has been with all our friends??
Would you rather hear it from your friend or g/f??
What would she be able to blame on me??
Should I makea deal with her so we take it to the grave?? She has slept with some of our other friends too.
Should I tell my g/f?
Who's gonna hate me more: my friend or g/f??

Should I tell him how almost everyone thinks she is an easy slut??

Answer 1

Being a true friend that cares about who your friend is dating, you should tell him about his g/f's conduct, not neccessary your little fling with her thou. Help your friend conjure a plan to expose what his g/f really is hiding from him, give him a chance to see through it immediately. Don't let him go question her, because she'll probably either deny stuffs or drag everyone down with her. If she is really slutty, I don't think planning something against her will be that difficult.

Anyway is she really that bad? Or maybe your friend doesn't really mind if she is a slut? You can consider if you really need to hurt her ya? Your g/f probably gonna hate you for your no taste, or being so easy, to go to bed with an easy catch.. well, good luck.

Answer 2

Until you reveal the truth she will always have something on you that can be used against you. The longer the time until the truth comes out, the greater his anger will be. He will be angry at both of you, but I have to think if any salvation is to come from this it will be between the two friends . . . . eventually. However, I really doubt if he'll ever introduce a girlfriend to you again.
Also, when you are speaking to him I would not advice you to refer to her as being a HO, that is still an attack on him, and he did love her so it won't make him feel too good that you think of her this way. Do not try to pass the blame on, accept the blame for what you did and be honest to him, is my advice.
Time heals some wounds, others are so severe we never recover, I do not think this is one of them.

Answer 3

You need to tell him. It will be easier in the end. She will probably hate you for it because that probably means their relationship will be over but as for your friendship, it will be easier to overcome this as soon as the cards are on the table. Call him now! Tell him ASAP and say you regret it and thats the reason you are telling him. You can even tell him that she didn't want him to know, because that proves she doesn't regret it and you do!

Answer 4

I think you oughta grow up...and tell NO ONE. All you will be doing is making trouble for yourself and everyone else.
Don't call people names and stay away from your friends girfriends. I'd also get tested for an STD, just in case. She has no respect for herself, thats NOT for you or any of your friends to take advantage of. Leave her alone...it will either go away on it's own, or she'll end up telling her boyfriend...(and I'd really hate to be her...she needs some self respect...)

Answer 5

well you sure tied yourself in a real knot.

well i would have to say that yes the truth does hurt.

but if you let your friends girlfriend tell your friend and your gf finds out then you will be in a lot of trouble.

the truth sets you free.

you should tell your friend everything about his girl and have some of the people that she slept with tell him to. so that way he wont get to mad but he probley would. i cant say for sure.

and your girlfriend. well i bet she will feel hurt. but i cant tell you her full reaction to this.

i hope this helps.
ps: good luck

Answer 6

dude i think that you should tell him because if you are a good friend youd want your best friend to know that he is going out with a whore explain to him that you were wasted and that you didnt really mean it even tho being drunk is no excuse... i think its better if he hears it from you.

Answer 7

I think you should tell him. Its always easier to give up your best friend then your boyfriend/girlfriend.

Personally I'd rather hear it from my friend.
She could say you came onto her.
Its up to your other friends that slept with her, but your friend should be warned that shes sleeping with all these other guys too.

Answer 8

IT SOUND LIKE YOU ARE NOT A TRUE FRIEND, DONT BLAME
THE ALCHOL FOR THIS BEHAVIOR, IF YOU REALLY KNEW
THINGS ABOUT HIS GIRL THEN YOU SHOULD HAVE MADE
A POINT TO LET HIM KNOW OR STAY AWAY FROM HER
NOW THAT YOU HAVE A ISSUE YOU WANT TO BLAME
OTHER FACTORS, GROW UP. TIME TO FACE THE MUSIC
AND TELL HIM BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE TELL HIM. AND
YOU KNOW WHAT GO IN THE DARK WILL COME TO THE
LIGHT.

Answer 9

most likely both. wow ...thts really bad. i would let them know . u need to be honest with them and say the drink got ahold of u. if theyve gotten drunk they know tht u cant think right.all u can do is explain and say srry . its left to them . im srry u messed up and i hope they can forgive becaz u seem really nice tht u want to save your friendship.. best of luck

Answer 10

Dude you deff should tell him. If you really like him as a friend you should tell him. **** it he might get mad. But you dont want **** turned around on you like it was all just your fault. He might not get mad. You will just have to see. Bros before hoes always.