this guy hes a HUGE nerd ask me out he told me i have the lips of and angel but i seem so far away and that he just has to move along adn say that i m beautiful and a bunch of stuff lik that!!!!! i mean it was really sweet but i already go out w/ sum1 adn i completely killed his heart and now he won't talk to me or anything wat m i suppose to do i mean after i told him i went out w/ sum1 i said it was really sweet wat he said and i said i was sry so wat now??
2006-12-30 14:48:56 · 43 answers · asked by gothic! so wat u gonna do!!!!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING SWEETS , AM SURE HE'S A SENSIBLE PERSON AND HE'LL UNDERSTAND THAT YOU'RE BUSY. JUST BE POLITE TO HIM ALWAYS , DON'T SHUN HIM !
oops sorry for the capitals , didn't realise..
2006-12-30 21:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by whatever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You so full of yourself. Who are you? Britany Spears?I can't believe you are actually calling someone a NERD! And what's worse is, I can't believe that you decided that you didn't want to date him because he was supposedly a "NERD". And don't deny it. Everyone on this site knows that you refused him because you thought he was a nerd. This guy could have been the man of your dreams. You'll never know now. Well, the guy shouldn't feel bad. You should. Shame on you!
2006-12-30 15:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by sammytoes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for him for trying but he also bears the responsibility for his failure. You are not responsible for his feelings. Life is tough, he needs to move on. I'm glad you're sensitive to his pain, but it is HIS pain, not yours, to deal with. Don't cave in to guilt or pity, it would not serve him well in the long run. You did the right thing by being honest, as did he. That's just where the chips fell. He'll get over it.
2006-12-30 14:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by bdenton2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's what happened to Bill Gates.... and look at him now...
any way... I have no idea what you should do.
possibly... just possibly send him a note that thanks him for noticing your lips etc... but like you said are dating someone.. he may stop torchering himself at nights thinking why he even tried and or keep polishing those bullets kept in his drawer and painting little pictures of you all over them...
sick world... and some people can't handle rejection,
you did nothing wrong and I have no advice to give I guess.
2006-12-30 14:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is how you do this, first you can go up to him and say "look, I'm sry if I broke ur heart, but I'm sure you can find someone else as good looking as me, maybe not me, but another gurl, supposedly". Sry if this don't help, at least I tried.
2006-12-30 14:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing else left for you to do. You were true to yourself, this guy, and the guy you're dating. Don't fret it.
He is probably just trying to get over you by not contacting you. If you are good friends he will come around. If you are not good friends then don't waste one moment worrying about him, because it isn't worth it.
2006-12-30 14:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be sorry for the truth. Be sorry if you belittled him or something like that, but if everything you say is true, sounds like you handled it the right way. A man will be able to take it and will be able to move on.
2006-12-30 14:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by volkgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not have any feeling for this person just let it be. Don't say anything. If you do he may hurt you back. If you like him then maybe you should approach to him and say I'm sorry if I hurt you the other day. See what he say.
2006-12-30 15:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by boricua1970maileen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying no is respecting yourself. It does not sound like you said No in a hurtful way.
If...
you have faith in God, pray for him
you believe in metaphysics sending him loving light
you believe in angels, send him an angel
Greatest blessings, peace, love, and light. Namaste.
2006-12-30 14:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Just2BMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pray that this person pays for what-ever he has done to your family member! Sin will find him out. I hope you and your entire family is safe; all of you are in my prayers! Good luck, and I send the best wishes. God Bless, Amen!
2016-03-29 01:30:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋