I hooked up with my best friend's girl. We were both drunk and she doesn't want to tell him. Do I tell him and take the hit??
Or wait til she tells or he finds out??
I don't want to lose a friend. It does go bros b4 ho's right?? Then he should be on my side, right??
*I don't mean that I think she is a whore(although many think she is)
Is it better for me to tell him soon here and deal with the fact that our friendship will be a little weaker(not destroyed tho)
OR
Not say anything until she has been with all our friends??
Would you rather hear it from your friend or g/f??
What would she be able to blame on me??
Should I makea deal with her so we take it to the grave?? She has slept with some of our other friends too.
2006-12-30 14:46:43 · 13 answers · asked by Aric 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I tell my g/f??
2006-12-30 14:47:10 · update #1
Who's gonna hate me more: my friend or g/f??
2006-12-30 14:51:41 · update #2
Be a man- fess up! Tell him and your girl- You can't change it and you can't lie about it- one lie would only lead to another
2006-12-30 14:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember that if your friend is a true friend he will realize everyone makes mistakes and that if you have been a good friend then you should be forgiven. Though an accident you must understand your friend may trust you less, but if you don't tell him soon then he is going to have a hard time ever trusting you and even harder time forgiving him. Be honest and good luck
2006-12-30 14:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by StressedSweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I was your friend, and both my boyfriend and best friend cheated on me, I would just not talk to both of them.
But you should tell your friend that you did something if your friend is suspicious about you two because either way, I think he going to find out anyway.
2006-12-30 14:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell ur friend the truth before its to late and ur friendship goes down the drain and u said u were drunk so there is not really a connection there.
2006-12-30 14:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by bobblehead_93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is right blame it all on the girl, you both should be ashamed...and don' t blame it on the booze, you may as well come clean, take the punishment, and move on..You never move in on a friend's mate, never.......
2006-12-30 14:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him and make an excuse like "we were both so drunk we didn't know what we were doing." or like say that you "didn't even remeber what happened intill she told you the next day you were so drunk" or something like that. he should get over it. best of luck :)
2006-12-30 14:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him.. She probably isn't going to tell him if she didn't tell him about the others... Just tell him you got drunk she is a slut and you knew she would sleep with you...
2006-12-30 14:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by sweetchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why tell anyone?? keep a good thing quiet!!!! he doesnt want to hear it from anyone. and if he did find out, no matter from who, you are the one who is gonna get all the crap. good luck. and enjoy while it lasts
2006-12-30 14:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by cheezie72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL THE TRUTH
dont Waite for anyone to tell it for u, it will make it worse if it came from someone else . period
2006-12-30 14:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them! It will make u feel better........a strong friendship can survive anything.
2006-12-30 14:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋