I like one of my friends, and I know he likes me too. But he tries not to, and the way he does it is trying to avoid me and not talk to me. But all it is doing is making me feel like I am not loved. I am sure he likes me, but I think it like a thing that he is not who I think he is. He is cute, he is sweet, and he plays football, so he takes care of himself.He does have one bad thing about him though. When he's around his friends, he tends to be even more annoying with not talking to me. But I think he has a bad past or something that screws him up with relationships. Either he is playing hard to get, or he DOES have a bad past. So what should I do with him? Ignore him and find someone else to like, or something else??? He is really breaking my heart with this act he is doing!!!
2006-12-30 14:46:29 · 15 answers · asked by hmw95 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People that play hard to get deserve not to be 'gotten'. If he's a player, or a self absorbed, or emotionally distant or immature, or socially clueless, then why catch him? You'll only have to fix him and carry the relationship. Keep him as a friend and wait for him to grow up a little and make the first move.
2006-12-30 14:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by bdenton2k 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
men should not treat women that way. if he does have a problem, he may need help. if not then you should talk to him and see why he acts the way he does when with his friends. maybe if he knew how you feel it might make a change. do not put up with b.s. , good luck
2006-12-30 22:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its nice that u lik d dude so much, but d way he treats u i think its better that u move on. n dont tell d guy bout ur feelings coz it looks lik me might just insult u in front of people. so move on, may b another cute football player is waiting 4 u sumwhere....who'll treat u better..good luck
2006-12-30 23:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by TiShA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
***** shut the **** up you dont need to feel loved what you need to do is pull your pants down and start riding my parana plant that will make it a lot better wehh hehh!
2006-12-30 22:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by luigi_mario_beats_daisy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's breaking your heart, find someone else that will treat you with more respect. And if he's ignoring you so much, maybe he doesn't like you anymore. If he notices you with other people maybe he'll realize how much he likes you.
2006-12-30 22:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe it is an act. Sounds like he has poor communcation and social skills. The thought of approaching you intimately probably scares the crap out of him. If you have patience deal with his mannerisms, if not, I would recommend you move on.
2006-12-30 22:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
alot of guys are like that. i've been in your situation alot...i'd say they are immature and maybe they have too many secrets. never straightforward...always has a mask on. self absorbed...just do yourself a favor and find someone else.
2006-12-30 22:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go traight to him and tell him you love him and give him a big long kiss or first check if his taken not only in school but in his life ask him if he has a g/f
2006-12-30 22:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by Ivan_Gonz. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, he is a BAD BOY and playing hard to get. Damn wish I could be like him. I have round heels.
You are doomed, girl.
2006-12-30 22:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
perhaps when he matures enough to stop playing twelve year old games.hes unsure of his own emotions and be careful your treading on territory with a man whos not fully ready to be a grown up regardless of his age.
2006-12-30 22:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋