I'm 24 years old and I haven't been on a date in over 5 yeras. I'm a physically fit cop with a master's degree, but for some reason girls won't give me the time of day. I don't like going to clubs/bars and dating at work is always a bad idea especiallly in my line of work. I'm at a loss at where to find a nice down to earth girl. I consider myself a quiet, intelligent, and adventurous perosn. I don't have any family or close friends in the state(CO) to "hook" me up because I just moved here after being in Air Force for six years. Any advice would help?
2006-12-30 14:45:10 · 10 answers · asked by Sarge 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to people. Find some one you find acctractive and keep in touch with them. Something will happen. Try a dating service. and talk to people like you. That shoudl work out.
Good luck
2006-12-30 14:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Screen Name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are intelligent and intelligent people usually read. Your first stop is to look for women in bookstores. Or you can join a book club and get aqauinted with a special lady. Look in church, they always seem to have decent women. Adventurous? The park or like a biking club! Check around for women that are cops too, that way the two of you will share a common interest. If you match the type of character to the right location, then you'lll find the right girl. Do a character check-up on yourself. Is there anything you want to emphasize, down play, or delete? Make a list of characteristics of the type of woman you want, like a map and that will make your search easier. Praying helps much too. Don't worry, there are lots of women who would be attracted to you, you just have to pull the diamond out of cubic zirconium (or is it zirconia?) Good luck!
2006-12-30 14:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Walking Contradiction 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to believe that from 19 to 24 you haven't had a date. In your case I might recommend trying some of the Internet dating sites. It will broaden the potential source of dates and give you a chance to flirt and converse on-line before actually going out.
2006-12-30 14:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to church. Seriously. There are some good women there. I still love a cop (ex-military also). it does things to you. You see nothing but bad in people. Counseling will help but you will never change. Look up PTSD...you need a woman with low expectations and a good heart. Church, Brother.
Good Luck and happy New Year
It makes me almost cry to see that in a man so young.
2006-12-30 14:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my advice to you is try harder and be your self, all that is nice but some girls wont care what you did in the past they want to know what your going to do in the future.. The best place to meet a nice down to earth lady would mabie be a dog park why not ...
2006-12-30 14:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by stephie_petz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated 2 adult men who were shorter way shorter than me (i'm extremely tall). One lasted a year and the different 2 years. You do get stares and human beings have had reviews about it. yet I in no way cared and also you shouldn't both :) if she makes you chuffed that must be all that concerns
2016-12-01 08:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by butlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you really see someone you like try to talk to them as a friend first. Don't rush nothing. Then after you see what they like they might change for you.
2006-12-30 14:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you are running a personal ad. try the online websites and try your luck. just watch out for the psychos, fruitcakes and people who are what the seem. If you want to speak to me, you can e-mail me at love.my.kids@hotmail.com. good luck finding that special somebody.
2006-12-30 14:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by myangelbarry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goto laundomats, supermarkets, sunday affairs, and do the speed dating round and if all else fails, just chat up the cute girl that sells dresses at the local shopping centre.
2006-12-30 14:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by curlyhurlymo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.plentyoffish.com try there
2006-12-30 14:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋