We have not had sex in over 3 months
im really trying to be patient, however he is trying my patience! lol
I know he isn't cheating
He says it must be a medical issue! Ugggggh help..im going insane ladies....I love this man....is love enough? We have been together for over 3 years...and i know relationships take work...but come on!
2006-12-30 14:38:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you ,ove im and the relatioms end sounds like you just stepped into the mommy role.if it were a medical issue any dr. out there is willing to prescribe viagra.
2006-12-30 14:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a medical issue then the porn and surprise thing may add more pressure rather than solve the problem. Some vitamin supplements can cause this problem , I learned during a dry spell ( that sucked..or rather led to..oops...don't want to get reported...) Let's just say the amusement park doesn't get closed because the roller coaster is broken.
2006-12-30 22:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so the thing you chould do, talk to him. It might actually be a medical issue and he is embarrezed. Maybe he just isnt felling well. Talk to him and be understanding.
About tthe moving in., Good idea. But maybe he is still ajusting to live with you. And maby it is a medical issue. So just lissten to him.
Tehn maybe he need some in couraggement. Try to do something with him. but read the first two paragrphs. Ok good luck and tell me what happens
2006-12-30 22:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by Screen Name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you have not communicated enough with each other! What about your sex lives before you moved in with him?
If it is medical, why so sudden, if you have been having regular sex before?
You need to communicate and confide in each other, especially when you decided to stay together.
2006-12-30 22:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me and my ex boyfriend hint the ex part.. I got tired of waiting it was always something he fractured his finger and told me he couldn't have sex.. I mean I didn't wanna have sex with his finger...lol... if you have the patience you could stay or something I left mine for another guy...
2006-12-30 22:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by sweetchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, how do you know that he's not cheating.. you need to think about that.. unless yous are together 24-7 then I would say theres a good chance of that, sudden loss of sex interest with one partner usually means sudden interest with a new one and some guys are very smart about it.. you need to think about this :) :) :)
2006-12-30 22:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since your b/f says it's a medical issue... set an appointment with him.. and a serious talk, no beating around the bush... get too the meat of it... call Dr. Johnson, *sorry, bad humor..
2006-12-30 22:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to pseudo marriage! lol
Actually you should encourage him to see a Urologist to make sure his plumbing is intact. They might recommend a drug like Viagra or Cialis for a few times to see if that works.
If he is religious, he may be feeling guilty about moving in without marriage. (Don't Laugh, It could happen!)
2006-12-30 22:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by classic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn depend on sex.
2006-12-30 22:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some male enhancement pills.
2006-12-30 22:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋