My daughter's mother turned gay, how can I make sure my daughter doesn't catch homosexuality?

Question

I just want her to be normal.

Where are people getting this wife from? I wasn't married to her.

Answer 1

you cant my mother turned guy when my dad left her! and if u really want to make sure get costedi of her im a lesbian and it was cause i was use to seeing dat all da timee

Answer 2

First, being "gay" isn't a disease your daughter can catch. It's a lifestyle choice. Even people with homosexual urges don't have to act on them. Your daughter's mother has chosen to follow this path.

If your daughter is still living with her mother, then it is quite likely she will be shown that path too, and have it presented as normal, acceptable, and good.

If you disagree with that assessment, and you still have parental rights, you can appeal the court for custody of your daughter on the grounds that her mother is unfit or living a lifestyle you disagree with.

Answer 3

It's not contagious.

You should be more concerned about making sure that your daughter has both a male and a female role model in her life; people her love her, nuture her, and show pride in her no matter what she does with her life.

My mother is gay. It was very hard for me as a kid. That was 20 years ago. Times have changed, and though your daughter will experience confusion and embarrassment at times, there is a much greater acceptance of alternative lifestyles now. Be there when she needs to talk. Don't force her when she doesn't want to. And trust that you will have rasied a young lady who is both enlightened and moral, confident in herself and accepting of all people, regardless of their differences.

Answer 4

Its not a disease, you cant catch it, people are born that way. If your daughter already likes guys completly I wouldnt worry about it. Even people that were married normally and then turned gay were still gay before they got married it was just not as open and was extremly horrible back then so people probably felt they coulnt come out. If you love your daughter then you would accept her no matter how she choices to live since thats your flesh and blood.

Answer 5

Well, as long as there's no fever, it's generally not contagious. What kind of question is that? It's not a disease. And here's a news flash, unless you're THAT bad, she didn't TURN gay. I wouldn't worry about your daughter, she has one normal parent, her mother. I just hope your daughter doesn't catch ignorance from you.

Answer 6

you cant turn gay its something you are born with, usually somewhere along the lines theres an aunt ,uncle or someone thats gay in your family usually in the closet you dont know who they are and its often the person you least expect. there is absolutely nothing wrong with it, its a personal choice sort of. and if your daughter was meant to be gay then you should accept it.... she is still your daughter if you cant accept that your daughter may turn out to be a little different then you need to readjust your thinking or risk losing her forever some people like girls or guys or both its perfectly natural some men are weird and like shoes or rubbing up against people in a crowded room everyones different and thats what makes them special

Answer 7

Homosexuality is not contageous! You may be interested to know that there is some evidence that homosexuality can have a genetic link. If your daughter is gay unfortunately there is nothing that you can say or do that will change that. Just hope that your daughter leads a life that is happy & fulfilling & that she is not fearful of homosexuality like her dad.

Answer 8

You don't catch homosexuality. Alot of people decide that they want to be with people of the same sex while they're still married. I know a couple that were married for a lot of years.They also have grown children. The woman wanted a divorce so she could be with another woman.I believe that some people only do this to see what it's like to be with someone of the same sex.People can sure be stupid at times. Why would anyone want to be with someone of the same sex?

Answer 9

u dont know how hard i started laughing when i read ur question. but honestly. u cant catch homosexuality. its a "choice" or ur born with it. (both of what ive heard, i dont know which is more common.) if ur daughter ends up being gay its NOT because of her mother being gay. unless she just thought it would be cool, then she would be a trendy lesbian that would just phase away anyway) and since most teens think everything their parents do is lame. i wouldnt worry about it too much.

Answer 10

Homosexuality is not contagious. First and foremost, you need to be a tad bit more open to sexuality, ANY sexuality. Learn as much as you can intellectually. There's nothing wrong with being bisexual, lesbian, or gay. And honestly, you don't have to be around them to know what you want sexually. There's people out there that have never lived around homosexuals yet, they are themselves. My point is, the more you learn about it, the more open you are to it, the more open you are to it, the more you can teach your daughter when she's of age to know and the more you teach her, the more respect she has of you, her mother and herself. I thank God everyday for being honest with my daughter when she popped the question to me about sex. And the more she found out and the more she helps me with her siblings, the more she wants to wait on having sex and the more open she is to the idea that there is more than one kind of lifestyle. For your sake and hers, please be more open. Don't ridicule her mother for it, that'll only make your daughter disrespect you more than you think. That's HER mother :) GL to you all

Answer 11

There is no such thing as "normal" when it comes to humanity. And Homsexuallity isn't a communicable disease. You don't get it from being around people who are. Stupidity on the other hand is passed on from parent to child maybe you should be worrying that she didn't catch it from you.