I'm a popular guy and this girl that likes me is not so popular but she pretty cute. I don't no if i should date her b/c everyon will look down apon me. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-12-30 14:36:14 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow your heart
Good luck
2006-12-30 14:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by Scotty 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
How old are you? I'm not asking in a mean way, but unless you are in highschool, this is pretty lame. Since when does popularity and being "pretty cute" matter to an adult. Yes- appearence matters, but if you find her attractive.. who gives a crap what other people think!?
If you are still trying to climb the popularity ladder in the real world, then you need to grow up. If you are, in fact, in highschool then don't bother dating her because your lame, popular football player friends will never let you forget it that you dated the unpopular chick- unless you actually like her for who she is.. but that doesn't happen a whole lot in highschool.
2006-12-30 14:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by seeingidog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the opinion of others so important to you that you let it rule your life ? Do you need the opinion of others even when you go to the bathroom ??? Grow up and get some self confidence then the opinion of others will not be necessary !!! You can't let "others" live your life for you... If you really think that this girl is cute then why not simply go out with her. Don't judge her just because she's not "popular"... What is "popular" anyway ? Believe me that word will fade with time... then what ?
2006-12-30 14:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by dd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try her out man! She might be better to be with than the popular girls. The best females are the ones that are cute or pretty but it's like they don't know that they are that cure or pretty. Don't worry about people looking down upon you. If you are popular then it should remain that way.
2006-12-30 14:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant believe your askin right now your sounding on popular if u like this girl go 4 it cus your friends shouldn't be tell in u what your every move is popularity doesn't matter,grow up and stop actin like a big baby at least she had the confidence 2 tell you that she likes u cus i can see u have none.
i dont know what that girls see's in you (maybe a little boy that thinks that cool is everything) u dont deserve her u should live all alone in a house with 45dogs and 200 donkeys
1.cool isn't gettin u anywhere
2.do what u want
3.u dont have 2 obey your friends over such stupidity
4.GROW UP!!
(i think u shouldnt make any more questions for a while cus its pissin people off!)
2006-12-30 14:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by Choclatestar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your so cool you might start a trend. They may idolize you and may have been wanting to ask a less popular person out too but were afraid just like you. Be a leader and do yo thang baby! Plus let me also tell you to not be so shallow..she may be the best thing that could happen to you..go ahead and give her a chance.
2006-12-30 14:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sonia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when did you have to start letting your friends decide who you date and why? If you leave that up to them then you may missed out on the right girl for you. Besides it takes a bigger person to make up their on minds who they want to date. And this girl may be the best thing you ever knew. Maybe your friends will end up liking her more as they get to know her. One day she could become a doctor or lawyer or model and you'll be wondering why the heck didn't you date her when you had the chance. Once your out of school all this child stuff won't matter anyway, who dates who and who is someone and who isn't. It may be you that isn't and her that is.
2006-12-30 14:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her and you think shes cute then don't worry about what everyone thinks. Be you. Also try to make her popular. Trust me they will start loving both of ya'll as a couple.
2006-12-30 14:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said: " I don't know if i should date her because everyone will look down apon me"...
Don't date her, and good luck my dear!.. no matter if you think she is cute!.. the rest of the people is "MORE IMPORTANT"... than what you feel for her..
I just hope you never "regret" this "RIDICOULUS" thing you've already said...
You don't deserve her...
2006-12-30 14:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish that poor girl luck because she must be a little lost if she has a crush on a self absorber egotystical self consinious guy like you. You do not deserve anyone if you continue to act like that and keep looking down on people and being shallow
2006-12-30 14:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by StressedSweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God popular people really bug me just go out with her, If you don't you might be married to some old hag instead of this girl
2006-12-30 15:00:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋