I met this guy, and we rele hit it off. Him and I talked all the time, and he said he rele liked me, and i rele liked him 2. After a few months of talking i hung out with him one night. After that night he just pretty much stopped talking to me! I felt so hurt that he had used me, and that he obviously didnt have any respect for me at all. Every time i tried to talk to him he would just ignore me. After awhile i gave up, and stopped trying 2 talk 2 him. My friends told me that he was a jack*** and i deserved better anyway. A month or so passed, and i still rele liked him. I was telling myself that he hurt me and was a player, and i knew he was bad for me. But no matter how many times i reminded myself how hurt and confused he made me, i still couldnt get over him. Then right when i thought i was over him he texted me 1day. I knew i should have treated him with the same respect he treated me, which was none. But i thought i would b nice and talk 2 him. Why do i keep doing this 2 myself?
2006-12-30 14:34:41 · 13 answers · asked by ck26062 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its natural to do this, I've done it before too. Best way to get over him is to start talking to another guy. That text was probably going to end up being the start of a booty call. He's just working his way into you again, don't fall for it. When you start talking to someone else, someone better who deserves you, you'll end up forgetting about this guy. Good luck!
2006-12-30 14:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want him to like you like he said he did. You know what he did was mean right? I mean, after talking, he ignored you and then had the guts to contact you again. So taking that, do you really think he is the best guy for you? You could probably find a better guy out there. Think about that and just give yourself some time to get over him.
Good Luck!
2006-12-30 22:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to stay away from him. Take it from me. I have been going back and forth with the same guy for 6 years. You have to stop it or it will never end. I am a very good catch and have a lot of guys asking me out. But it's just this one guy. He's never cheated on me. He's just selfish. I just haven't been able to get over him. He will even call after six months and my dumb self will always answer the phone. I think once he knows you aren't going to put up with it he'll move onto his next victim.
2006-12-30 22:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by hstoic01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must down to earth and accept the truth. It's quite obvious what his objective was with you, in your relationship. Now that he has revealed his true self, accept it.
You have to let go and start a new chapter in your life. Do not let this relationship stop you from continuing with your own life!
Use this as a learning situation for your future b/g relationships. Get to know your friends first before getting involved in any commitments!
Best of luck to you in your new life.
2006-12-30 23:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will all i can say is that the boy most had lied to you to get some. I'm not trying to hurt you but you need and i mean really need to stay away from that boy i don't care if he said some thing good to you in the past. you need to forget the past and head to the future.there is some one else out there for you.
-Christine
2006-12-30 22:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea9105 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u keep doing it because u have no self respect, u let guys use u, without making a commitment, your mistaking love with lust. they get what they want and give nothing in return, and u feel used cause u are being used. got to respect ones self, and if someone isn't doing u right, and u feel used, it's because they are using u, without giving u a ring, or making a commitment. he is in contact with u again cause whoever he was seeing has split with him, and he knows u are an easy mark, so wise up, respect yourself, and don't date or sleep with jerks.
2006-12-30 22:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you want him to like you, that's why you keep doing it...but is he really someone you need in your life? Someone who will ignore you in public but contact you in private obviously has zero respect for you or your feelings. Next time he has the nerve to text you, tell him, "There's the curb, consider yourself kicked, bud!"
2006-12-30 22:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by canuk_kait 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get over someone.....TIME
And while you are at it, get back on the saddle and open the doors to new relationships by guys that will treat you way better than this person could.
2006-12-30 22:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you're a girl.
and guys are like that. they do that...a lot. trust me.
my advice: who knows what he was doing or thinking when he was ignoring you. and who knows why he texted you. try to go to the mall with one of your most outgoing friends. when i want to get over a guy, i go with my friend there and we talk to guys...it will boost your confidence and make you realize how much of an *** he is.
2006-12-30 22:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by xidontwanttotalkaboutitx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz u want that happy healthy vision of a relationship that you have in your head to become a reality! :D
it can happen, if not with him than some other guy will think your awsome and give that to ya! good luck!
2006-12-30 22:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋