ive never been in love... but i think im in love now why is it so frustrating?? i cant fall asleep abecause she is always on my mind and i dont think she has the same feelings.
2006-12-30 14:29:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It frustrates you because you don't think she has the same feelings. If you thought she did, you would not be frustrated at all. You left out a couple of of important details. Like . . . are you dating the girl? If so, for how long? Have you heard the saying "Don't wear your heart on your sleeve."? It sounds trite, but that is probably what you're doing. Especially considering you've never been in love before. You need to make sure that you have a real chance with a girl before you let yourself get hung up on her at all. And even then, you should not allow your feelings to control you. Take your time. And don't get discouraged. Average guys have only about a 10% success rate. So if this girl is not liking you very much as you seem to think (you're probably right), you probably will see much more rejection before you find a suitable woman. Good night!
2006-12-30 14:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh trust me... if love is anything at all it is definatly frustrating.. it has to b the most frustrating emotion out... simply because u cant make it go away but u cant put ur heart on the line by doing sumthing because then u might just end up heart broken and that is even worse... dont worry... u are not alone.. im right there with u... Good luck =)
2006-12-30 14:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a normal feeling when you love someone - you always think about the person you love.
You cannot force a relationship. It won't work. Do you know for sure that she doesn't like you? Did you ever ask her out? Some girls are shy and cannot express their feelings.
If she doesn't love you - move on. There's someone out there for you; have faith. Someone may show up in your life unexpectedly.
2006-12-30 14:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing you probably have no way of expressing ypurself...start by telling her how you feel... if she doesnt like you youll feel worse but that is so much easier to get rid of then the frusturation...you need something to blow your anger try FPSs skateboarding rawing songwriting or all of the above...hope thta helps :D
2006-12-30 14:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been there. If she felt the same believe me you would know it. In the mean time keep your mind and body busy. Go out with friends or workout..whatever makes you happy..just stay busy...and you'll get over her with time.
2006-12-30 14:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sonia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's frustrating because she doesn't feel the same. Move on.
2006-12-30 14:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by linka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait till she really rejects you, matey if you never let her know, or put it out in the open, how do you know, whats the worse that could happen, be like how you are now, so if you have a crack, you have a shot of being happy, if not, you'll be like this for a while.
2006-12-30 14:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by curlyhurlymo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man this is exactly what happend to me. It sucks. you need to woo her. ya know, you need to be around her and see if you can convice her that she does like you. But after a while you must be honest with her because it will drive you completely insane if you dont. good luck, Justin
2006-12-30 14:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by J_Dawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh first timer, well that's the toughest time you can feel all of this inside your head, but you cannot show it, cuz that's just a fast way to lose her and love is really complicated but it figures itself out so all you gotta do is just love your girl
2006-12-30 14:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by jeannn. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so since am not her why dont u ask her and tell how u feel other than coming to yahoo answers nobody will give u that help here
2006-12-30 14:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋