2006-12-30 14:28:48 · 33 answers · asked by perfectperson1991 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't have any money then when you meet a girl invite her to dinner at your place instead of going to a restaurant. Order pay-per-view to beat movie tickets and that expensive concession stand. There are others activities that are free like the arcade, parks and her place! If she asks why you both never go any where just tell her your financial situation stifles you from that right now but that won't be for long. If she really is interested she will understand and maybe even treat you sometimes!
2006-12-30 14:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by miss tique 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I make a lot more than my boyfriend does, and his lack of money doesn't limit our relationship at all. We can't engage in as many expensive outings, but that's not a requirement. Its a good experience because we've learned to manage our money well.
You will find nothing but unhappiness if you date a girl who sees you as her personal ATM. You know what kind of women are interested in men for the money? Here's a hint; not the kind you can bring home to mom, usually found working a corner somewhere. This attitude of entitlement can also be seen in spoiled women who never grew out of the Cinderella fantasy.
2006-12-30 15:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FInd all the cheap or free things to do. Be creative! You don't have to have an extravagant date...or an unlimited money in your bank account to have a girlfriend. However there are some that worship money and are materialistic and feel the need to be high matienance, which then you might want to move on unless you want to support such a lifestyle.
2006-12-30 14:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by chariot804 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have any then you have to get creative to catch them like going for a drive or sitting out watching the stars walking on the beach making a picnic lunch writeing romatic letters the money fades the love from these things are given from the heart last forever.
2006-12-30 14:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by dianehaggart 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NOT TRUE it depends on the girl you pick. That's what you get for showing off to be with a girl so bad. The so girly ones will get you empty.There is some girls out there who won't care to brag you about money all the time. Try to find a independent lady who could put 50/50 on a relationship.
2006-12-30 14:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by LIZA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl you are friends with. You can always go for walks in the public park, find a nearby lake and take a picnic, and such. It also helps if you start trying to make more money.
2006-12-30 14:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by Patrick C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know that my boyfriend doesn't have much money because he is going through college. But what we do is simply go back to his house and watch tv or he may stay at my house and we watch tv here. But your girlfriend needs to understand that you don't have much money and if she can't then you need to find someone that is happy just being around you.
2006-12-30 14:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Parrish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do the small things that count... like quality time... maybe cooking dinner and renting movies... take a walk in the park or at the beach make a picnic... ummmm.... you could also... you could play games with her like games that stimulate her mind like playing truth ... it might seem silly at first but tell her its a way to get to know her better... girls like when men talk to them and listen to what they have to say... you could run her a bath and rub her back and stuff... while doing all these things in the mean time you can look for a job...
2006-12-30 14:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by Renee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
during the holidays and before her birthday, break up with her so you don't have to buy her gifts. then get back with her.... haha, j/k.. don't do that... that's what my dad used to do to my mom when they were dating.. it made her life a living hell.
my boyfriend says "get a rich girlfriend"
and I say, some girls aren't that artificial. I know that I contribute to my relationship as much as my boyfriend. If he buys me dinner, I'll buy dinner the next time.... but those kind of dates aren't that important. It's being with him that's important.
go on dates that don't require money... have her over, or go over to her place, ride bikes, go to the mall... just to hang. And go out for dinner occasionally... but split the tab.
If she really likes you it wont matter that you don't have money.
2006-12-30 14:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by Alexa K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come up with creative things but watching tv at your house doesn't count as a romantic night in sorry. Try something like a free concert or art exhibit
2006-12-30 14:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by binxx80 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋