i had this girl that i am dating and she does want to do it down the road. now she is a virgin, and even though we have been seeing each other for a while, i think by sleeping with her, she might start feeling even more too soon. i want someone to love me for me, and not b/c a night in bed rushed that right through w/o taking its time. so the question is, did you fall even harder for the guy after your first time?? is it wise that i wait, or say the hell with it.
2006-12-30 14:27:11 · 6 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girls do fall harder for a guy after having sex i know i did with my current boyfriend and he fell harder for me too he is more caring now then before and i think thats because he really watches out for me now alot better then before so i know that he loves me just as much as i love him
2006-12-30 14:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my virginity to a friend. I believe he felt like he wanted more out of the relationship than I did after we had sex (he wasn't a virgin).
However- shortly after this I start dating my current boyfriend. I really wish I would have waited to share my virginity with him because after we had sex I did love him even more and I know he loved me even more.
2006-12-30 22:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is, you'll both know when the time is right and don't follow the cliche of planning it out to make it perfect. Just wait until it happens and then enjoy it. Also, most women always remember their first and have a special connection w/ them. Good Luck!
2006-12-30 22:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by xxx_bleeding_x_stars_xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. For girls it makes us more attached emotionally to our partner after sex. I would advise waiting as long as possible and getting to know her as much as possible. After sex, especially when sex is rushed, the relationship can develop into an artificial one.
2006-12-30 22:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by Alexa K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah maybe a little, but i was already so in love it didnt make a difference that much. but since you two really arnt that much in love with each other, it might drastically change the situation
2006-12-30 22:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls fall harder after sex, yes. Be careful and take it slow, sex doesn't make a relationship
2006-12-30 22:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋