I haven't had sex for 9 months. I have chosen to be celibate because I wanted (when this whole celebacy thing started) to figure out what I really wanted in a relationship without sex blurring the focus. But now I'm so horny, I'm going crazy. I have a friend coming over in an hour. He and I have flirted continuously for 2 years now. I'm very attracted to him and I know he likes me. When we met he was going through a divorce, and I never pushed. He's never asked me out and although we do flirt, I know he's been seeing someone else, but is not very serious with her.
Should I just stop over analysing and do him tonight or should I still wait until I'm sure (of what? I'm not sure)?
2006-12-30 14:04:43 · 12 answers · asked by letmesurpriseu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you really want to be sure of what you want, like a relationship or just casual thing, then you should wait some more. You might enjoy sex tonight if you do decide that, but what about the next day? Will you regret what you did? Do something that will satisfy you for days to come, not just one night.
Krazy Libra
2006-12-30 14:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen the show Talk Sex (with Sue) on the Oxygen channel ... I think it's on late Sunday nights ... anyway, your question sounds like something for her :-) She'd probably recommend using a vibrator to relieve your sexual tension.
Personally, I'd say wait if you're not sure. Having sex with someone when the timing is not right can end up ruining or ending a friendship ... I have personally seen it happen.
2006-12-30 22:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by denise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 years of continuous flirting? You gotta KNOW he wants and expects to get some. If you ain't gonna give it up, the decent thing to do is call him up and tell him not to bother. Have mercy girl!
2006-12-30 22:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Hielodrive 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seriously, no offense. Have you tried masturbation? I hear it works wonders. I think you're doing the right thing by not having sex. Good night!
2006-12-30 22:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. You may regret sleeping with this friend tonight.
2006-12-30 22:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No your gonna get pregnant and tax payors will bash you. But if he has money, go for it.
2006-12-30 22:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Kurt 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
date him w/ no sex
2006-12-30 22:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by godschild 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
learn how to spell first
2006-12-30 22:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by c p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him hit it ma...you know your body needs it
2006-12-30 22:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by big stan 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just do it. And wear Nike.
2006-12-30 22:06:29 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋