should i wait for him? (more info added than before.)*?

Question

(( i know i've asked this before but i don't know if it'd help if you knew i was only 13. but, i can truly say i love him. ))

okay, this may sound stupid... but i'm serious. i haven't seen my boyfriend for 9 days and we haven't talked for 3 days. i've emailed him, but he hasn't responded. i really don't think he even got on recently. he hates the phone, so i don't know if i should call him or not. also, he lives only a couple blocks away, so i could go and visit him.

but, the problem is that he has a very busy schudule. so, if i went to visit him, i don't know if he would even be home. and, if he wasn't home, then i'd feel stupid. i do get to see him tuesday though...

so, here's the question... should i wait for him to email me back even though he hasn't emailed me for 3 days? or, should i call him even though he hates the phone and never talks? or, should i visit him even if i don't know he'd be home or not? i don't know what to do... please actually give real answers.*

Answer 1

First, I would like to compliment you on your writing skills. Not a lot of 13 year old could express themselves as clearly as you did.

Do all 3
email him, call him if he doesn't pick up then go see him.

- Once you see or speak to him you can let him know that you emailed him and he doesn't have to respond (only if he wants to).

- If you speak to him, tell him you would like to visit him and not speak on the phone.

I personally would prefer to visit him, doing things this way you cover all corners, try all 3 things.

Answer 2

Honey, let him enjoy the holidays with his family. Some people are really busy over the holidays. You sound way to desperate for your own good. You might scare him away if you keep that up. And, he'll be more interested in you if you have a life of your own.

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The kid is 13, he has a family, a girlfriend is not your whole life. Many couples go through longer separations. Give the poor kid a break.

Answer 3

Call him and ask him what gives? Leave a message if he's not home and then if he doesn't call you back then you know that he's ignoring you or is not interested. Be honest with him and let him know that you felt as though you were in a dilemma as far as not knowing if you should e-mail again, visit or phone him. Don't go wasting your time. Just be honest and ask him. Good Luck! '-)

Answer 4

Honey, you need to get a copy of the book "He's just not that into you." I know it sounds insulting, but the books is liberating. The truth is, if a guy really likes you he will call, or in this case, email. When a guy really likes you, there are no mixed messages. I know it isn't what you want to hear, but it's the truth. Life's too short.

Answer 5

Drop him. Doesn't sound like your too important to him. A relationship with a person should be in the top priority. Don't take a back burner. I wouldn't call, email or visit. When he calls, tell him to hit the road...Not worth it. I have been there and it hurts to be low priority on a boyfriends list.

Answer 6

You need to be patient. If you can't be patient, then get him a card, write how much you miss him and would like to see him if only it's for a minute. Then, take the card to his house when you think he may be home. If he's not there, you can leave the card. If he is there, then give him a big hug and kiss and tell him that you just wanted to see him, if only for a little bit.

Answer 7

You don't "WAIT" for anything. But do you NOT email or call him again? Yes, you do not email him or contact him again. Do not call, do not email, do not show up at his house unannounced. You will see him on Tuesday. You will just look desperate, needy and clingy if you keep trying to contact him when he hasn't contacted you back. You'll know soon enough. But regardless, you WAIT for no one. Get on with your life. Go out with friends, spend time with your family, read a book, whatever but you do NOT wait.

Answer 8

It kinda sickens me how people throw the word love around, but in my opinion this is not a two-way relationship because he is not open to communicate. Also you might want to have better time perspective because if you think three days is unbearable then you seem needy and are going to intimidate you b/f. Absence makes the heart grow fonder

Answer 9

He will be in touch with you soon! Just relax even though it is hard to do at your age. If you really want to see him or talk to him then go over there and knock on the door and see what is up with him. Why hasn't he talked to you in 3 days?????

Answer 10

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