Should I kill myself? Ive tried to a *** load of times. No one gives a crap about me. I get high and drunk and my parents kicked me out of the house. Im in so much pain from everything i do. No one gives a rats *** about me so what the point of living? Please stop me before I do and end my shitty life...
2006-12-30 14:02:54 · 13 answers · asked by young_people_suck 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I'm sorry you feel that way...
I bet many people care about you.
Maybe your parents kicked you out for a reason. Ever heard of tough love? I bet they want you to seek help.....
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2006-12-30 14:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ ☆ StarLiteGrl~98☼1 ☆ ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to start caring about yourself...it's as simple and difficult as that. If you hate yourself, hate your life and act in such a self-destructive ways by getting high and drunk then yes, people start to care less and less.
No one can stop you from ending your life, you have to make the decision to want to live. But ending your life is not the answer; your life has a purpose.
What I'd suggest is taking things one step at a time. First try to get into rehab or into some kind of addiction program like AA. Drugs and alcohol can mess up a person's thoughts and can also contribute to feelings of suicide. Once your mind and body are free of these chemicals and you can think more clearly then start thinking about what it is you want to do with your life. Such as going to school, learning a trade, finding something that you're interested in that can help you feel better about yourself.
I'd also highly suggest that you see a therapist who can help you figure out what it is that you hate so much about yourself and why you want so much to escape. A therapist can also help you learn ways to better cope with stress and to work on ways to build your self-esteem.
Please get help and start living a healthy and productive life. It IS possible although it can take a lot of work at first. But it's worth it, YOU are worth it and you have a purpose in this life, just as we all do.
Take good care
2006-12-30 14:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by mountaingirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to call for some help! You are loved no matter what you think. Are you doing things to get attention to make them throw you out? Are you getting high and drunk to stop your pain? This doesn't help because the problems are there when you sober up plus you have a hangover. Your parents probably don't know what to do and they are trying tough love by throwing you out hoping it will make you grow up. Sit down and talk to them about this get to the bottom of it and tell them you are suicidal and you want help. Being a parent is hard and so is being a teen but your life is priceless and your parent's love you so much. They don't know what to do. You can get some professional help and feel better. I tell you one thing to do is go in there and hug your mom and dad and say I LOVE YOU and I WANT EVERYTHING TO BE OK. Say a prayer to god for strength even if you don't go to church. Try anything at this point you make a difference in your life and watch it change for the BETTER!! GOD LOVES YOU!
2006-12-30 14:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by holliemay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u should get some help, or close friends. Trust me someone cares about u. Don't kill yourself because whats your reason for dieing when other people are fighting sooooo hard to live. People care about you. You also may be better off trying not to get drunk and high. Don't make ur problems worse. Life is a gift, and think about your future and making it better.
2006-12-30 14:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by politicaltnt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a TOTAL change on your life. Form yourself into a more better person. Get a job and start acting mature. Suprise your parents and maybe they'll let you in again. NEVER KILL YOURSELF BECAUSE WHEN YOU'RE AN ADULT YOU ARE NEVER THE SAME PERSON YOU WERE AS A KID! If you make a change now you would make yourself and SO MUCH OTHER PEOPLE HAPPY! NEVER KILL YOURSELF!
2006-12-30 14:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by NICOLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I see there is a problem here.Well let me tell you somthing before I go any further.I am a person who just happen to be looking through the questions and came upon yours.I am going to say thisJesus "Loves You" will you accept him?Romans 10;9 for he died for you and for me.I am not what people call a Jesus freak ither I just know that in my life I felt like you but there was only one thing I hadn't done and that is call upon him.And beleive me I got an answer.Know that you are special to him and of course to me because I found this question.Give yourself a chance try him for 30 days and you will see that if it dosen't change in your life then you have to keep trying till you get true understanding for your life.PLEASE give him a chance.Find a minister to talk to and he will help you too.Let the New Year bring in Joy for you.The best thing for the New Year is to accept Christ.
2006-12-30 14:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by gblue52 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I care about you, But you really you can't do these things, my sister was in this position I really loved her but I was a 13 year old and moody. She shoplifted drank even though she was underage and was arrested I still loved her. She killed herself. I know it may seem like people don't care but they do, your parents are either jerks or are just upset that u use drugs. Please don't do this. Even the littlest of things you do, make people love you. Your parents love you, believe me I know things suck but you have to be a success,even if you never be a rich famous person just you surviving from these things, will be a success story. keep fighting
2006-12-30 14:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by help:) 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are selfish and it shows. Try being selfless. That is self---less for a change.
A life spent serving only the needs of the self is one shallow life. It takes depth of soul to withstand the slings and arrows life throws at you. Your paper soul just can't bear under the pressure and you tear. Serving others selflessly makes you stronger. Gives you depth. Helps you hang on when life takes those dark turns from time to time.
Been there. Done that. Discovered self---less---ness is the best answer for an empty life.
2006-12-30 14:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Catfish_Woman154 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do your parents know you have tried to kill yourself? If they don't know I bet they would be sad and get help for you. Don't kill yourself please...go to a church & talk to a pastor.
2006-12-30 14:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by CM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave drugs and alcohol alone and your parents might let you come back. Once you start feeling good about yourself will others feel good about you. Drugs and alcohol screw up your life.
My brother was in the same position and he ended up going to prison.
2006-12-30 14:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋