my bf and i had some momennts but i always think he is but then he doesnt i dont wanna kiss him cuz he may not like it but i do how do i get him to kiss me
2006-12-30 13:57:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think the relationship will work if you want to "get him to kiss you" a first kiss will come on its own. Don't force it. There will be a perfect moment for it. For mine, I didn't even expect it and it was amazing! Just let it come :)
2006-12-30 13:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lovleigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can either wait until he does it which is what most girls would do. or you can give hints like after your date pop a mint into your mouth and offer him one. hopefully he will get the hint, or if you watch a movie with a gushy kissing scene say "Awwww" if he still doesn't get the message just kiss him, he'll like it. the reason why he is probably hesitating is because he may not be sure how to and is scared that YOU wont like it
2006-12-30 22:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by maverick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to talk with him about your philosophy on dating and such. Some guys assume that some girls are waiting for marriage before any form of sexual contact – including kissing. Just a heads up!
2006-12-30 22:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i was in that same situation not too long ago. does he know u hav never been kissed??? it cud help if u told him but u dont have 2 if u dont wanna. just kiss him. simple as that. i always told myself i was just gonna kiss him but i never did. instead he ended up kissing me. i am glad it happened that way. it just happened naturally. it was a lil more special i think. it was kinda unexpected but it was sweet n it was good. it will prob happen eventually. but he is prob just shy. my bf was a lil at first but l8r he kissed me. but if u really want it, just look into his eyes. at the rite moment, it will prob b a lil quiet. n just lean in n kiss him. just do it. dont stress bout it. but just kiss him. if u r too scared, chances r he is too, so either u will have 2 wait or ull have 2 kiss him urself. but i wudnt rush it... just let it happen.... but he cud b shy..... dont like plan it out or wutever.... wen the moment is rite he will kiss u n if he doesnt just kiss him. i know it is easier sed than done but just do it.
2006-12-30 22:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by <3_*~kiLLeR_kiSsEr~*_<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this might sound odd but maybe just talk to him about it. Ask him if he's ready. Then if he's not ready to kiss yet he doesnt have to but he'll also have a chance to.
2006-12-30 22:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by Natalie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
this is how my girlfriend got me to kind of become less shy...we were planning to go out the next day so she said to me over the phone where do u wanna go and i said i didnt know...then she suggested a closet and it worked out find
hahahahaha good luck : )
2006-12-30 21:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by CH CH CH CHIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab him and just kiss him! Sometimes the female has to be the one to start it! I had to with my hubby back when we were dating!
2006-12-30 21:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by JH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't want to plant on one him lean in for it, make sure he knows you want him to and hopefully he'll take the hint.
2006-12-30 22:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wait for him! Take charge! This is the wanking 21st century!
2006-12-30 21:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mo L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he'z ur bf he won't mind if u kiss him... He might actually like it... is he shy? maybe he thinks u don't want to kiss him
2006-12-30 22:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by ksm_623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋