I know him fairly well--we talked alot before we went out. Neither of us are virgins (not even close) and it looks like it might get serious..we're kinda on that path already..
2006-12-30 13:44:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are mature, consenting adults, then having sex is your choice...first date , second date, etc...having sex too soon can toss a wrench in a potential relationship so it's always safer to wait if you have hopes of things developing, but having it early on isn't "wrong" in any way...just may not always be the best judgement call...
2006-12-30 13:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it might get serious and you want it to get serious, it means that you will have the opportunity to have lots and lots of sex during your relationship, so waiting a little bit more in the beginning would be a good idea. If you give in too easily you might have him think that you are easy to get, and as you know: easy come, easy go!
So if you wanna keep him for long, keep your legs crossed a little longer. Doesn't mean that you cannot kiss. If he insists you can show him with a nice kiss, that you do like him, and if he likes you he will wait. If he is not serious it will be easier for you to discover, cause he will be annoyed that he cannot get you into bed.
2006-12-30 13:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Instant Problemsolver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be BLUNT and HONEST after I read this the first thing I thought was: WOW she is easy. Sex is suppose to be something special between two people. How special can it be if you only know the person "fairly" well and have only hung out one time before this. But then again you said you're "not even close" to being a virgin--- so sex obviously has no special meaning anymore. Its just something that is done.
What is so hard about waiting til you know him WELL? Or waiting to make sure your friendship will go down the dating path?
2006-12-30 13:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily, but why not find out if it gets serious before having sex? Go out a couple more times - it's not that much longer to wait. That way you will know whether it is meant to be or not. You've only been on one date - you can't know if it will get serious or not.
2006-12-30 13:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Vexer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen you needed more time to get to know him. Now you and him are going to have problems in the relationship I am not judging you. But your date might not trust you in the future, he will be a jealous boyfriend because he knows how fast are you. So try to keep a open honest relationship with him and be close with him.
2006-12-30 13:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it might be serious all the more reason to wait longer than the second date. In my book, second date is too soon, no matter what.
2006-12-30 13:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say to wait. Even though you are not a virgin (and he isn't either), it's better to hold off sex until you are married. Besides, there is that ol' risk of getting STDs... totally not cool.
2006-12-30 13:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by sandy25527 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you sleep with him on the second date there will be know respect from him he will think you are easy
2006-12-30 13:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by maddcc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea. I did that and now he's distant and cold with me,i feel hurt and used. I hope it works out for you though and that he doesnt run like mine did,bye x
2006-12-30 13:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it was wrong but it certainly isn't very smart. Talking to someone doesn't mean you know them all that well. And you've just made yourself look "easy". I can't imagine what he has told friends and family about you...then again yes I can imagine.
2006-12-30 13:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋