my boyfriend is 18 and im 15 and he's been bringing it up latley, i guess i'm o.k with the idea of loosing "it" to him, but i just needed some help like preparing or whatever what should i do , were when , how??, any suggestions please help.
2006-12-30 13:44:11 · 20 answers · asked by crazy. beautiful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o.k so Im 15 , gonna be 16 soon and my boyfriend is 18, but he just turned 18, it sounds bad but it's not that big of an age difference, he is a senior im a sophmore, and sex has been a reoccuing thing latley and i've given it a lot of thought and ithink he's the one i really want to give it up to. I know all like the things that can come with having sex, std's and pregnancy or w/e and i know he's older than me but w/e. So the thing is he is not a virgin so i'm afraid he will be expecting somethings i might not know about it so any of you "experienced" people have any suggestions for me as far as what i should do and how to prepare to have SEX!!
P.S: please dont say im too young, i realize im 15
2006-12-30 14:32:09 · update #1
I'm 18 and i'm still a virgin. I take pride in this because all of my friends lost their virginity around your age. And you know what, they regret it because the guy who promised them the world left them after they got what they wanted. So, I will tell you to tell this guy you're not ready. Be a strong woman and stand up for yourself. You obviously aren't ready if you are asking questions...say no, it will be the best decision you ever made.
2006-12-30 14:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first off don't listen to all those people who say you're too young for sex. It's not true, it's never too young for sex, especially if you're 15 and not 11 or 12. Those people are most likely either a) adults who are very conservative and don't know modern ways of life or b) people who never had sex and feel jealous so they don't want you to have sex.
You need to know that:
1. It feels very good
2. You need to have a lot of foreplay if you inted to squirt
3. You don't have to wear a condom if he know that he will pull out
3. Don't have sex with a tampon in
4. First time have sex in a 90 degree position
him standing, you lying on your back legs spread. This should minimize the pain that you get from your hymen breaking.
2006-12-30 22:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by rockability 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa stop right there hes 18 and your 15 that not right to begin with you shouldnt be having sex with an 18 year old thats considered rape. and you shouldnt just be ok with the idea of it, it should mean somthing. heres a good tip wait a few years before you even think about having sex with a guy dont let this guy pressure u into it thats not right.
2006-12-30 22:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by chrfou18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what you do need to know is that you to young, and dont think im one of these adults telling you sex is bad..wrong! im 15 to and ive been in the same situation, after you do *it* hes just going to get bored, dont loose the most precious thing to you, its not a wise decision and you will regret it no matter hw much you like him..make the right choice and be careful
2006-12-30 21:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT ready and you are being pressured into doing something you really don't want to do yet by an insensitive moron of a boyfriend who is only interested in one thing. Dump him now, as he will only dump you as soon as you've given him what he wants. Might as well escape this one with your virginity intact, what do you say?
2006-12-30 21:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
making sure that you got protection is the first step, using a comdon is the best to prevent you from getting pregnant and getting any other dieases. Make sure that you really want to do it.
here is a few website that can help you out cause really its up to you and to get all you questions answer by just researching for youself.
2006-12-30 21:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know that it's statutory rape and he can get thrown in jail if you parents find out and want to press charges.
If you are going to do it anyway, make sure that you are sure, make sure he wears a condom and that you are doing it for the right reasons and that is NOT because he wants you to - it's because YOU want to and because you love him.
2006-12-30 21:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Vexer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's going to dine and wine you first you won't even think about any of these things except how clean you are. Just remind him to use protection, take it slow, and have a ball. No pun intended.
2006-12-30 21:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing i would make sure is make sure hes not gonna leave u after yall do "it" cuz it would really suck!!!! All u can do is sit back and let him do all the work the first time.... and make sure he uses a condom!! AND ITS HURTS REALLY BAD... I CRIED AND SCREAMED!! Hope it helps.. but its worth it if yall care about eachtoehr!!
2006-12-30 21:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow 15 is a bit early i think. Im not sure you should go through with it. He probably shouldnt be pressureing you to do that at your age..
2006-12-30 21:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by Slappn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋