my boyfriend says "i love you" and i respond "i love you too" and he is always like "you sure?" what is that suppose to mean? does he not trust me? I dont know what to do after that...how would i make him not ask me that anymore
2006-12-30 13:11:52 · 13 answers · asked by fieldhockey.love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he means it completely seriously, and he's worried that since a lot of people say "i love you" very casualy, he wants to make sure you mean it the same way as him
2006-12-30 13:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by just_like_a_dandelion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him why he sais that.But be seriouse.Say of course i do why do you ask that all the time.Do you think i dont.If he takes it the wrong way,try to explain what you mean.Like if he sais something like "I ask it because you arent seriouse.Or something like that.Then just say I am serious.I just dont understand why you say that.I hope things go well good luck.
2006-12-30 13:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not that seriously doubting you. It sounds like a playful reply and he just wants you to say that you are. Remember how Marisa Torme and Joe Pesci did it in the movie, "My Cousin, Vinni"? He would playfully ask her, "Are you sure?" and she would say, "Positive" (in a very sweet and sexy voice and manner).
2006-12-30 13:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ! When a boy starts using the "I love you bit" it usually means he's setting you up for the pastry resistance saying: PROVE-IT,that's when you'll know what he really wants. Watch-out.
2006-12-30 13:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if everything else in your relationship is going well, i dont think its that he doesnt trust you. but it is kinda routine to say "i love you too" when someone says it to you..so he may want you to say it the first time, not having to respond
hope this helps
goodluck and happy new year
2006-12-30 13:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jinnie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saying "i love you" doesn't mean anything if there is no love behind it. The best way to tell him you love him is to show him that you love him! If you show him your love he will stop asking.
2006-12-30 13:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Instant Problemsolver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've either done something to make him not trust you or he has very low self-esteem. Have you tried asking him?
2006-12-30 13:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF YOUR SHUR YOU LOVE HIM ALL YOU GOT TO SAY IS YES! BUT IF YOU DONT SOUND LIKE YOUR HONEST THEN MAYBE THATS Y E ASKS THAT. BUT ASK HIM IN A NICE WAY Y HE SAYS THAT?
2006-12-30 13:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by *Sexy-Love* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause he said he love you and than you like i love you too, it's like you just saying it cause he said it, Thais why he keep asking you.
2006-12-30 13:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he asking you if u do because he probably thinks ur prud and he wants to like french kiss! :O lol
2006-12-30 13:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by irishmen1222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋