I have a gay friend who was always bugging me to try gay sex. We recently got drunk and I let him perform oral sex on me. It felt great, and it was better then any I ever got from a girlfriend. Now I think about his mouth when I masturbate. I am worried that I am gay. I still have regular sex with my girlfriend!
2006-12-30 13:11:49 · 44 answers · asked by Bill A 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you are likely gay, although it is possible.
Many heterosexual men experiment with some element of Gay sex. You were drunk and your defences were down.
Ask yourself, if you would consider letting him do it when you are sober, or doing him?
The experience was unusual and outside your normal sexual activity, so it stands out. I also, tend to think Gay guys are better at giving head then women, just because they know the male anatomy better.
Just tuck the experience away and go on with life. I wouldn't tell your girlfriend unless you think it means more then sex. Its not a great deal different then masturbation!
2006-12-30 13:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I read your question and it made me laugh a little.
Then I glanced through the answers...
That's why I decided to answer your question. Far too many uninformed people pulling your chain.
No, you are not gay! Okay?????
Something no one mentioned has to do with anatomy.
You are a guy right? And as a guy, you have a guy's genitalia, right? And you masturbate, and you are pretty familiar with it, correct? So when you want to orgasm, you know exactly where to go, and what to do, right?
Now wouldn't it make sense that your friend has done the same thing, and he's really familiar with his genitalia? So from this, if he were to perform oral sex on you, wouldn't it make perfect sense that he would be really good at it, and probably give you the best one you ever had? I mean he's got the same genitalia as you, and he's just as familiar with it as you are! He knows exactly where to go and what to do.
Of course he's going to be better at it than your girl friend is, so don't worry about it!
And as far as going back to it when you masturbate, well hell, that was the most spectacular orgasm you ever experienced! What are you going to do, fantasize about the worst experience you ever had????? Don't worry about it!
Now if through your drunken stupor you looked into his big blue eyes and you felt your heart flutter just the same way you feel when you look in your girl friend's eyes, and whenever you hold your girl friend's hand you think that your buddy's hand is nicer, then you got something to deal with!
You were drunk and horny, and he was willing to get your rocks off! Don't worry about it!
2006-12-30 15:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by LongSnapper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Straight men have gay sex in prison, and go back to being completely heterosexual when they are paroled and have access to females. A gay man has had other boys go down on him so he knows what feels good and he would have so much more experience, therefore he can give you way better head than your gf. I doubt your real problem was that u got a great bj, and u enjoyed it, I think you feel guilty because you cheated on your girl friend and you did something u think is immoral. Try buying your gf an expensive present, and maybe you wont feel as bad.
2006-12-30 13:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tim'sSO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex of anykind and become a person of value. Don't be a cheap trick for someone and don't turn someone else into a cheap trick. Sexual desire if not controlled becomes like a flood that can damage and destroy. Think before you drink to much. Value your life, your body, and the person you are.
2006-12-30 13:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by Zippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may be gay! But see if sex is better with a girl or a man. And if you like both than you my be bi. But there is nothing wrong with being gay! It is a natural thing.
2006-12-30 13:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by humorouschic93 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whoa what did u do man now ur gay!!! maybe u shouldnt have gotten drunk in the first place and u liked it when u got over ur drunkenessmaybe u should get with ur gay friend and be GAY guys wierdo
2006-12-30 13:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sara R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, i'm sure that if a girl were to do oral sex on me (I am a girl, although the picture shows a guy-- i'll work on the avatar later) she'd do a better job than a guy would. why? well, she has the right equipment and knows how she would want hers to be handled. i think she'd handle mine the same way.
you may be bi or you may just enjoy sex with a guy better. how bout you do oral sex on him and see if you like doing it as well as you like getting it. that might answer your question.
2006-12-30 13:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could be turning gay, or just bi-sexual. But I think you should let your girlfriend know that you are engaging in gay activities, its only fair to her
2006-12-30 13:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why on earth did u let that happen when u have a gf?
I think you might be turning gay if u think about it all the time!
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2006-12-30 13:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by drkhrse099 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋