My ex and I broke up roughly 3 months ago. He had been "emotionally cheating" on me with his best girl friend. We dated for one year and a week before we broke up he told me he told his parents we were going to get married. It was really serious, or so it seemed. They started dating soon after we broke up. She broke up with her boyfriend so they could start dating. Crappy situation... Anyways, there is this Christian conference that I think will be beneficial for me to go to in January. However, both of them will be there and it might be a long bus trip back if they are both going to be there. Should I just not subject myself to this situation or do I say screw it and have fun w/ my friends and not pay attention to it?
2006-12-30 13:07:19 · 36 answers · asked by Andie M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say go ! Your there to see God not them two. '-)
2006-12-30 13:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely,, I would attend,, Unless I had something much better to do.. But if you feel like you have a place there then by all means go.. I mean go girl ... Just Be A Lady ,, It sounds like that won't be hard for you to do.. It might be a little hard ,, but sometimes you have to face the very people that hurt you .. Please Just Try Not To Show It... You EX appears to have a lot of nerve... I hope you move on soon...
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2006-12-30 13:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change your life because of them. You have every right to be there. You just need to not worry about them and enjoy the conference. You can't hide from them the rest of your life. Confront it now, and the situation won't be as odd in the future.
2006-12-30 13:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by Graham72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was not very Christian of them to do that. It will be difficult, but if it's something you really want to do, go ahead with it. See if a friend or family member will go with you. Show that you don't care what they do and that you have a good Christian attitude and can forgive them for doing you wrong.
2006-12-30 13:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and have fun, dont let something in your past run the rest of your life, Dear there is Karma and she will visit the both of them!!!
So you just have fun living your life the way you want!!
2006-12-30 13:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you avoid the situation it will appear that you are bothered by it. Go and make it appear you are fine with it. If you avoid situations like this, they will think they played a good one on you. Play one back on them and show them you do not care about their stupidity.
2006-12-30 13:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should act like a strong person and show up!...Act like what they're doing doesnt bother you at all....go there for the real reason your supposed to be there which is to worship GOD....there are many hypocrites out there....just keep it real with your chest up and show up with a smile on your face!
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2006-12-30 13:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lucas J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be able to not notice, so don't put yourself in the situation. Exactly why you shouldnt date people from the same church or where you work. Too uncomfortable in the end..
2006-12-30 13:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by Shawn M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the conference and let God take care of it. He can do it a much better job than either of you.
2006-12-30 13:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them! Don't let that couple ruin it for you or not let u have any fun! Don't let that situation make you miss out on the blessing!
2006-12-30 13:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay As Far Away As Possible From Him And Her!
2006-12-30 13:09:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋