i used to date this guy almost 4 to 6 yrs ago, he wanted to go to his ex b/c he said she wanted him back so we broke up. now, we started to talking again. he was single so was i, so i brought him out to my best friends house and he stayed with me. we talked about getting back together. and we did he promise he wanted to change his life and start fresh with me i believed him. so we were together everyday for 2 weeks. then he went to his friends house i dropped him off and he told me he would call and he never did for like a week after that, i was pissed off badly and i told him if he loved me like he said he did he would be here with me. he said he got drunk and passed out . well we havent seen each other in almost 2 weeks so i texted him and he responded. i asked are we ever going to see each other again or spend time together and said that he was doing some thinking but again no respond so am i wasting my time? and get on my life?
2006-12-30 13:07:04 · 15 answers · asked by dark_confession24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you've just been played. it's tough to see when someone doesn't care about you when you care deeply for them. It's so tough con-artists make a living off of it.
Take a day or two (max) to be sad and then get up and do you. There's much more to life than to being in love, but too often young women feel they need/must start at falling in love. (sigh) Not true! Dumb! Don't waste your time feeling bad and getting insecure about what's wrong with you. Chalk it up to his poor upbringing and inconsiderate nature. Then pity him for what he'll miss out on and (hopefully) regret. And lastly but most importantly, do you.
People with interests beyond their significant other are so much more appealing. Remember? You used to be one of those people?! Chose to see this as an opportunity to prepare yourself for the greatness that is in store for you. Rather than a curse on your love life. Get you together now and your next relationship will be incredible!
2006-12-30 13:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look up the number for Weave and file a complaint. You have a right to keep your name private. Tell the person taking the report that you are 16 years old and you want to report him for sexual misconduct with a minor. Give the person the name, phone or address. Wait a week and see if he calls you back to cry on your shouler =
2006-12-30 14:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by christina r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your being played....and you know it!!!!
Dont let anyone play you like a fool. Next time you hear from him, you are too busy with what ever to see him or even have the time to talk to him, REALLY he is not your friend no less someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, is it?
I really hope that you said NO to that one!
You want someone that is going to be there for you when you need them or at least have a better excuse why they are not there.
Go on with your life and let this Loser be. Karma will meet him soon.
Good luck
2006-12-30 13:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should move on it is very hard to do i was in your same situation but there are plenty of guys out there that would probably love to be with you. you can get with him again but chances are the same thing will probably happen. don't let time go by waiting to see if he calls go out there and live your life because you don't know what will happen tomm. the love of my life was killed two years ago and i have spent alot of time thinking about what could have been crying for what?nothing is going to bring him back nothing! the truth is that i still hold him dear in my heart but i have tried to move on not only for my sanity but also for my health, and for your health and sanity try to move on as best as you know how also follow your heart.
2006-12-30 13:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by dreams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wasting your time like no other. i wanted to stop reading your question after you said he left you 2 be w/ someone else. right then, he was a goner. should have ran & never looked back. he uses you as a safety net....& wll do so everytime you let him.... btw, the " I got drunk & passed out" line is played. heard it before.... the guys heart is w/ some other chick.... like i said before run fast!
2006-12-30 13:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by ♰ smooth sailing ♰ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was too drunk to call you - for a week. Riiiiight!
Have you heard of the saying:
Fool me once, shame on you - fool me twice, shame on me?
This guy has played you not once but twice, made it blatantly obvious that he does not give a rat's *** about your feelings, and you are still running after him and begging to see him again? Grow a spine, girl.
2006-12-30 13:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this is in my eyes a clear case of wasting your time on someone who doesn't respect you. And you should never look back, and never go back to old ex-s, cause he left you cause he thought someone else was more important for him back then, and you don't seem important enough for him now either, otherwise he wouldn't treat you like this.
2006-12-30 13:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by Instant Problemsolver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is a pig. Move on. He is playing you that is where the term player comes from.
2006-12-30 13:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by benndeb8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are wasting your time, get on with your life.
2006-12-30 13:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by furiousstyles22003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should leave him he sounds like a person who is not commited fully in a realtionship. good luck and have a happy new year.
2006-12-30 13:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋