so my "girl" is very hot & every guy wants her. we have been together for 6 months, & the situation with us seems to be drifting apart. nothing really bad, but not hanging out, im always going out of my way, calls from her have dropped like a rock. everytime i want to go out, she cant go, or something comes up etc. well i am just tired of giving & not getting 100% back from her. so i met this "new" girl by her coming out of her way to see me at my job not once but twice. well needless to say i got the hint a month after the 2nd visit & called her up to say "hey, lets hang" well...nothing has happened - YET - between my new friend. she goes out of her way for me, we talk everyday, & in two months, i have done more with girl B than what i have done with girl A put together. so of course i am starting to get feelings for the new girl. i love my "girl" but i also realize that trying to fix the current situation isnt working. i have tried to explain, & nothing sinks in. confused INDEED
2006-12-30 13:04:05 · 10 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why try so hard when she isn't? sometimes things are broke for a reason and can't be fixed. it doesn't sound like girl "A" really wants to be with you. Girl "B" sounds like she would like nothing better. I'd go with girl B.
2006-12-30 13:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you truly wish you had the relationship with girlfiend A, that you have with Girlfriend B. That won't happen unless you talk GF A, openly about what you are looking for in a relationship with Her. It sounds like this is what you would really like, and I think in all honesty you are selling all 3 of you short because you are in fear about being honest. It'snot fair to GF B, that secretly you wish GF A, was doing all this hanging with you. It's alos really possible GF A, is reluctant to commit and reveal her honest feelings because you are already seeing someone else????? Women are blessed with something they call "Women's Intuition" It's a sixth sense, a radar of sorts. I've never known it to be wrong. In any LTR, you need honesty and have to face fears and ask questions.... Be brave and the right thing will happen alot less painfully for all concerned.
Good Luck!
2006-12-30 21:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by CreateInspiration 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tried to tell your girlfriend that it isn't working? Surely she's not that braindead. I guess if nothing else, have your new girl go somewhere with you where the original is, so she'll get the point. But I have a hard time believing that. You need to be firm with your girlfriend and tell her it's over, for her sake as well as yours.
Just be sure this is what you want, not something you'll regret later on. Believe me, take this from someone who is older and has many regrets....when we get older we miss the chances we got. But if she doesn't care that much about you, then I guess it doesn't matter.
2006-12-30 21:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First girl #1 may have already found someone new as well.,Could be the reason for the change.BUT you dont know that for certain.You should always end one thing before starting another.Because if you dont it could come back to get you.Dont leave girl #1 as back up in case #2 doesnt work out.Its a risk youll have to take at your own expense and not others.
2006-12-30 21:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by migamw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with girl B, I'm hoping the real reason that everything sort of stopped with Girl A isn't because you found girl B. But if it's not comfortable and it's not happening with Girl A, time to give up and move on.
2006-12-30 21:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
basiclly y try 2 make something work thats not working for u or her so let gurl A down gently and f**k gurl B like a mechanical bull ride that way no hard feelings.............good luck
2006-12-30 21:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Darlene M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda sounds like she wants to break up anyway but even if she doesnt at least break up with her b4 anything between you and the new girl happens
2006-12-30 21:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by wilkinson_1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grass is always greener dude. either way you'll end up being wrong so don't sweat it. grow a pair, make a choice and live with it
2006-12-30 21:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by rico1445 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to find a justification for cheating on your girlfriend. Three words for you, mate: "pathetic" and "not working".
2006-12-30 21:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow your heart and choose one. good luck and have a happy new year.
2006-12-30 21:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋