ok, so theres this guy i like alot. and the other day i saw him looking at my bbest friend! i mean, it was like a 2 sec glance, and like, i know the guy pretty well, i think he might have a thing 4 me, lol but im still not sure and he doesnt know how i feel yet. im scared that im over reacting and the fact that im hiding my feelings from him is making me paranoid! i mean then again hes always looking at me too, and smiling when we talk:). but for some reason i keep playing him glancing at her in the back of my head and it makes me wonder. please help, all comments will be taken seriously! thanks
2006-12-30 12:52:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've known him for a while and like all my friends say he likes me and i do too. all the signs are there thats why im ready to tell him how i feel....am i being paranoid though? this has only happened once with my best friend and it was for like 2 sec. and its not like she likes him, trust me i know, lol. please help and dont be sarcastic! this is like serious, lol
2006-12-30 12:57:38 · update #1
it was a stare like oh ur there stare. like how i look at his friends. like i know there his friends and he knows shes my friend. i dont think he really meant anything by it. he never mentioned her on our date. i hope it was just all about me that night!
2006-12-30 13:00:12 · update #2
Ask him if he like's you. Or ask him if he like's her. Honesty is the best thing so that you know for sure and you are not wasting your time. There's my two cent's. Ask him. Or also you can tell him you like him.
2006-12-30 12:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
chill out it seems like you have some type of trusting issues did a guy ever do something with this friend of yours?i hope not and if thats the case then your friend has got to go
.im pretty sure he likes you .dont ask him because he might just get freaked out that you even think something like that and he might wanna end things with you right there .also if this girl is your best friend then no worries hunny she wont do anything with him and make sure you let her know how you feel so she can keep an eye out to see if he might be tryin to get with her
2006-12-30 20:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men always look at women, especially if the woman is attractive. It doesn't mean he wants to marry your best friend or even date her.
You need to ask him out and see what he says.
I know thats a hard thing to do, because you could get rejected.
However, I'd rather know where I stand with someone even if it means being rejected, rather than being in limbo and constantly wondering 'what if' or over analyzing every look he gives.
Just ask him out and you'll have your answer.
2006-12-30 21:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends what the stare looked like. There's many different stares and many different ways to interepret them. I don't see anything in your description of how you think he likes you though. If you he talks to you maybe you should ask him if he does like your friend and if not, go for him. Smiling is ALWAYS a good thing.
2006-12-30 20:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys look, and look and look, he doesn't wan't to scare you off if he likes her because then you would take her and leave... so his only choice it to ploy to both of you... and hopefully a bond will build between your girl friend and him then he will slice you out of the picture..... this is a classic move.... DO NOT BE OFFENDED.... this is a genetic thing... a hunt and mate instinct in the natural male... if he does like her... be glad for her and Jealousy is a terrible creature to let loose... your time will happen, enjoy the dance of life and the thrill of the ride that it offers you, be glad for your friends when they find victory and cry with them when their hearts are ripped out...
enjoy the game as it is afoot!
2006-12-30 20:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him how you feel or try and show him how you feel and maybe he likes you to maybe his looking at your friend to try and get closer to you you never know so tell him you like some one but dont tell him its him you like but make it obviouse that you like him and just let your friend know that you like this guy and she'l understand if she really is your friend she wouldnt take advantage of him she'l let you get in first.
2006-12-30 22:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by kizza005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should ask him. good luck and have a happy new year.
2006-12-30 21:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no all fellas look at girls even if they dont relise it. it definately sounds like he likes you tell him how you feel
2006-12-30 20:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by Stacy S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend.
2006-12-30 20:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think hell go for either of you get in there 1st!!!!
2006-12-30 20:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by padraig 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋